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My self-summary
I'm a pretty simple guy, for a human. I keep pretty realistic expectations for most of my endeavors, and prefer to maximize the time I spend looking inward, focusing on those factors in my life I have control over, minimizing that worrying about outside forces, over which I have none.

'A finely crafted blade will never meet as many blows on the battlefield as it did on the anvil.'
What I’m doing with my life
My lifelong identity has been that of a big brother. To my little brother, but also to most of my friends. My little brother just moved in with his girl, so now I'm big brother to a 42 year old friend of mine ^_^ My new roommate. I gamble and game competitively. I work smart and play hard, with some of the best friends I could imagine.
I’m really good at
Childrens card games :p and as a side effect, telling a lot about a man based on what he has on his feet. I've also serviced a lot of customers, and was raised courteous and respectful by Mom and Grandma, even though I consider most of humanity to be a wretched hive, of scum, and villainy. I'm also pretty punctual ^_^ pretty good at predicting an ETA. Also hackysack
The first things people usually notice about me
Could be that I am a Patriots fan(haters etc.), or the man of few words. More likely, I have a rather imposing physical presence, I'm a teency bit tall, and wide of the shoulders, with long, unmanageable-ish hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite books are Douglas Adams Hitchhiker's series. I also enjoy Poe, but most of my reading, and especially my enjoyment, comes from educational resources, during recreational hours.

My favorite movie is the Big Lebowski. I also enjoy anything Tarentino, especially True Romance and Pulp Fiction. Honorable mentions for Rounders and Kingpin, and anything Marvel, most things DC.

For shows I love most Netflix Originals, including Trailer Park Boys(primarily before it was netflix original..), Breaking Bad, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, but my all-time favorite would have to be Seinfeld. Also loved binge watching Tales from the Crypt.

I listened to 64 days worth of music in 2015. The bands I hold dearest include the Doors, the Mighty Mighty Bosstones, Reel Big Fish, Sublime, the Offspring, Alan Parsons Project, Blondie, Boston, Green Day, and Tom Petty.

And if I were on death row, my last meal would have to include corned beef, macaroni and cheese, and a jelly donut.
Six things I could never do without
Not materialistic in the least. Not a true hustler unless you could lose everything, and then get it back. Which I firmly believe I could.

For practicalities sake, I would do my darnedest not to get caught without my phone(although it's not a smartphone), a lighter, a piggy, sleeveless shirts, and a good pair of shoes ^^
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm a pretty grateful person. I've wound up very lucky, so I often ponder ways to return the many favors and opportunities I've been afforded in my community. And to be the best that I can be.

More recently, how it is probably not in the best interest of Okcupid for me to 'live happily ever after'
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually have a few friends over to my place, play some retro video games. I'll also hit up the occasional show or bar, karaoke or otherwise.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a rather private person in, guy on the street would have a hell of a hard time getting in my head. But if I feel a connection or friendship with someone, I am honest to a fault(specifically my own faults). I guess one of my demons would be feeling like I'm not worthy to visit with most of my family as often as they would probably like.
You should message me if
you're in another castle. If you want to bullshit about whatever, or just check out my spotify to get to know me that way :p
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