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My self-summary
My dance card has gotten a little full, so I'm not a great candidate for anything more than fairly casual. No worries if that isn't your thing! I have updated the preferences below to reflect the change.
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I'm into life. I'm into living it as fully, as consciously, and as interestingly as possible. I'd love for my life to be an awesome story, and I spend most my time trying to make it that way.

I'm into being positive, fun, and loving. I don't think you can possibly love too much.

I'm in love with humanity! I love interesting interactions with new people. I could never imagine limiting myself to only one. For that reason, I don't want a monogamous relationship!

I'm very curious about all the areas of life I haven't explored yet! I'm into seeing things from a different point of view, or learning qualities from people I admire. I'm definitely into growing as a person.

In short, I'm into having as much fun, doing as much good, and living as much adventure as I possibly can.

George Bernard Shaw once said: "Life is no brief candle to me; it is a sort of splendid torch which I've got a hold of for the moment and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations."

I'm into that.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm making my life more adventurous, and having as many interesting, cool, and/or educational experiences as possible.

I'm always working toward improving my life or life-mindset. You might say I'm a big fan of personal development.

I'm also trying to get a handle on how I might be able to do more things. I'm learning to be more of a person who acts on his cool ideas. Or at least his bad ideas.

A few years ago I returned from Australia, tying film-making and extreme living together in a video blog. If that sounds like your thing, check out [update: temporarily offline while I make a new website!]

After that, I started an internet rock band called Boom City. If that sounds more fun than the other thing, here's one of our old music videos.

Now I live in North Carolina, and I'm trying to decide what my next project should be: a series of YouTube videos about open relationships, or a new board game I have been designing. What do you think?
I’m really good at
I pick up new skills pretty fast, so you might say I am a quick learner.

I'm also passionate about game design - I want to know how to make things fun. I kind of went to college for this, actually.

I spend a lot of time philosophizing, and trying to grow, so I feel practiced there.

More than anything, I love communication. Speaking, writing, filming, singing - I am enamored with the transfer of ideas.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't usually ask my friends about this, but if I had to guess, it would be my unusual personality. It's a sort of extroverted introvertedness, mixed with a very positive attitude, muddled with observational humor, and chased by a shot of philosophy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I think I'll not list a whole bunch of movies and books and such. Who really reads those lists anyway?
Six things I could never do without

...Actually, I try to make sure I can live without as many things as possible. So assuming we aren't talking about food, water, air, etc., that's (hopefully) about it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot (probably too much) of time thinking. My favorite topics are:

(1) How to improve myself.
(2) How to better my relationships with other people.
(3) Things I want to learn.
(4) What I would like to do from here.
On a typical Friday night I am
It could be a party; It could be an all night conversation with someone I find interesting; It could be a night to myself; It could be a night working; It could even be several or none of those.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Actually, I'm pretty open to any line of questioning, whether it's a thought provoking "What's your deepest fear?" or scandalous "How is your sex life?"

Feel free to ask me anything - the table is open for questions.
You should message me if
I seem like a person you'd like to talk to =)
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