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My self-summary
I try to focus on doing things with my life as opposed to worrying about how people perceive me.

It would be really great to have a go-to guy for cuddles, sex, and general masculine support. Someone to trust, be myself and explore my softer side with. A partner. A long term relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
Fun and happiness are pursuits; we've got to go get it! So that's what I try to do.

What I do for a living is a large part of who I am. I don't live to work; but it does usually energize me and give meaning to my life. I earned my Doctorate so that I could be of service to others and I fulfill that goal daily.
I’m really good at
-Baffling people with the things I say
-Making no sense at all even when my logic is perfect.
-Seeing what makes people special
-Teasing my brother.
-Being non-judgmental- because who really cares- except in traffic! Random skill: I can parallel park a bus. Well, at one point I could.
-Brewing beer apparently
The first things people usually notice about me
I can seem kind of serious. And I am serious sometimes; in my job I have to be. I love it when guys make me laugh so that I can be my relaxed, goofy, and generally irreverent self.

I also blush easily. Have fun with that one if we meet. If I'm blushing, I'm probably also smiling which means I like you and we're having a great date!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I think listing this stuff is kind of silly and doesn't really say all that much about me but maybe it gives our in-person conversation a jumping off point???

Books that have had an impact:
"The Razor's Edge" by W. Somerset Maugham.
"What is the What," by Dave Eggers
"The Celestine Prophecy" James Redfield - ya, I know...

For movies:
"Some Kind of Wonderful"
"The Hunt For Red October"~ why does this surprise people?
Sure, all the 80's classics, I think my favorites are "Real Genius" and "One Crazy Summer."

I'm not paying for TV service right now and find it extrememly liberating.

Food: Curry of any kind~ Indian, Thai, Ethiopian.
Also becoming a beer snob with my brother's support and guidance.
The BEST thing about ironman is eating!

Venice is my favorite city. I've been 3 times. I realize that with all of the wonderful other places in the world I shouldn't need to go back again. At the same time, I'm sure that my life would be sadder if I didn't.

Namibia and Thailand are my favorite countries so far.
The six things I could never do without
-A smile from a guy I have a crush on
-friends, the kind you've had forever and are now more like family
-the ability to let go
-the ability to hold on
-breaking rules
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I don't know, it's different all the time depending on what's on my mind.
Ethics tends to come up... Mine, other people's....
On a typical Friday night I am
grabing a beer with you?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I took a photograph of a girl in tanzania once and it changed my life.
You should message me if
Just message me. And when you do, please be appropriate and not gross. And then maybe we can meet.

And let's go ahead and meet and not just text a whole bunch.