First of all, two important things: yes I'm kinky, and no I'm not looking for anything serious. I just got out of a pretty deep attachment and I'm not in a spot to do that again. This doesn't mean fwb, just casual dating.
I love horror anything (books, movies, artwork, etc), spend far too much time obsessing over classic rock, listening to japanese and korean music (only partly for the language learning potential), play video games more than is healthy, am a total book nerd, and am dedicated to learning how to cook as many delicious things as I can. I sing when I'm drunk or when I'm in the car by myself, but I have terrible stage fright. I love languages and am now teaching myself Korean, and I'm just learning to love getting healthier. Baby steps so far, but we all lean to run from baby steps right?
I'm also most likely nerdier than you...this is a thing that has been put to the test several times, and I almost always win.
Also I'm really enjoying going to local games, shows, and other stuff. You haven't lived until you've done the jaws gesture at a Sharks game. Also the fireworks at a Saber Cats game...it's a little redneck, but how can you hate an arena football team that, for all intents and purposes, has a dude on a motorcycle for their mascot?
I also LOVE to cook! if you have any interesting recipes, especially traditional ones from other cultures, I'd love to have them!
I say I like outdoorsy stuff, but I rarely actually get out and DO outdoorsy stuff, so...but I'm pretty sure I like it. Once the weather gets consistently nice, I'm going to start hiking Alum Rock like it's my job.
Learning new languages.
Finding dives that secretly have amazing food, just on a hunch.
Absorbing pop culture knowledge through osmosis, apparently.
Books: The Girl Next Door and Red, by Jack Ketchum. Off season is also pretty good, but a little too fantastical. If you don't like gore, don't bother with these. My favorite book of all time ever remains IT, by Stephen King. Thus far I've read three copies to tatters. I also love Neil Gaiman, Tolkein, Jeff Lindsay (writer of Dexter, I just pretend the third book doesn't exist), Matheson, Clive Barker, and Peter Straub. I also like to pretend that I'm too good for James Patterson, but when I'm desperate...
Movies: As stated above, I am a horror movie fan. My favorites include Jaws, Halloween, The Changeling, and Black Christmas. Older horror is the best. I also cry at the Shawshank Redemption, laugh out loud at Serenity, and delude myself into thinking I can do awesome kung fu after watching any number of gorgeous HK action films.
I also enjoy doing my very own MST3K's to any number of 80's horror movies, often featuring slime in a prominent role.
Music: My god, so many. Let's go though my ipod a little, shall we? Let's see - Amuro Namie, The Herd, Chocolate Watchband, Janis Joplin, Epik High, the soundtrack to the Social Network, the soundtrack to The Matrix, a little Kanye, a little Dead Prez, a little Less than Jake, a little MF Doom. That's just a fraction. I like a lot of stuff.
TV: My only cannot miss shows are Top Gear, Top Chef, Game of Thrones, and RuPaul's Drag Race. I'm also Joss Whedon's bitch, and I'm kind of okay with that. I'm ALSO watching through The Wire for the first time and it is amazing.
3. Books. Lots of them. Kindle is the greatest invention.
5. A good recipe (or many)
6. A sense of adventure
These are in no particular order, really.
Or, you know, if you feel like it.
PS - You should NOT message me if: all you want is an FWB situation (friends are cool, with benefits isn't a thing I can do.) Also I tend to forget I even have this, so if I haven't messaged you back try me again.