30Benton, United States
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My self-summary
Former Master Electrician for theatre in DC. Landed in my career after dropping out of college for personal reasons. Avid gamer and fan of anime, though I tend to spread my attention to a few different subjects all at once. Tend to over think because I worry about others before myself.
What I’m doing with my life
Just moved down south from the Washington DC area. Trying to find out what kind of person I am without all the former big city personalities pushing me around. Not that it was bad, just different and faster paced, so much that I was unable to enjoy myself and relax.
I’m really good at
I like to think understanding people but then I have trouble understanding my own actions at times. Good at my games and spoiling friends. Oh and most my female friends ask me relationship advice despite my track record. I like to help and be available, just need to learn when to say no.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my size, at least that's what I heard growing up. I started off as the shrimp in elementary school then puberty hit. If it's been a bad day though most people seem to be afraid and avoid me. Truth is though, despite how I look, I'm a giant teddy bear. I love hugs and cuddling, though I don't get them as often as I would like. I also don't search them out. Good friends get great hugs but I don't like to impose so I usually don't seek them out.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't want to go hunt down and make a probably vague and misleading list.

book- romance novels or fantasy novels
movie- anything not horror
music- I listen to ANYTHING
food- anything
Podcast- SexIsFun
Six things I could never do without
Friends- they make everything else worthwhile
Multitool- theatre work technically takes place in a 'constrution zone'
PS Vita- videogames on the go
PS4- playing games with friends, seeing as 360 was a frustrating social system
Galaxy Tablet- internet on the go (has a desktop at home)
Cellphone- never know when someone will need something, help at work or around the house, I tend to be a popular choice to rely on
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My past and how it's made me who i am. This used to be a negative thing, my memories are mostly of sad situations and how to avoid them reoccuring. Instead though, I've taken thse memories and looked past them to look at the fact that I have come this far whole and intact. I just can't seem to be beaten no matter what gets thrown my way.
Oh and can't forget sex. I definitely am an NVT and love the Sex is Fun (SiF) Podcast.
The truth is, it's a fun and interesting topic.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually working, that's normal for the industry though. I have less days off than I would like so when I'm not working I'm doing something relaxing. Movies or staying in most times.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I guess that would have to be why I'm a college drop-out. My father took his own life and it caused me to crash and burn my junior year. I've since recovered and haven't seen a reason to go back and finish my degree. I'm already in the feild I want doing what I love. I may go back if I need to but at this point I don't have the drive to complete a degree.
You should message me if
You want to play cards against humanity. I need to play it more often.

Or if you want to cuddle, I'm a huge teddy bear.
The two of us