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My self-summary
Voted most likely to save a strangers life, be ready to help you bury the body at midnight with no questions asked and instantly befriend your normally non-sociable pet(Riddick Voice 'It's an animal thing'). I'm Dexter; a Brooklyn-Born ethnic chimera that's inquisitive, open minded, & compassionate. I'd try to tell you the exact measurements of how many parts caring/nerdy/kinky/etc I am but I'm fairly certain someone just threw a grenade into a mixing lab one day and shouted "Fire in the hole!", hoping for the best. (MB - INFJ)

Nature is my true love; put me outdoors near a body of water or trees and an abundance of animals and you will have easily made my day. Whether it be local parks/beaches or driving upstate/out of state with friends, I need time to commune with nature somewhat regularly. I'm lucky in that regard as I live near Prospect Park.

I love to learn and share knowledge with other people. Experiencing as much as possible, embracing the connections formed and learning more about myself in the process. There's an abundance of mysteries in this world just waiting to be discovered, why wouldn't one want to do some exploring? Let's chat and get to know one another!
What I’m doing with my life
Career wise, working on transitioning from my current job towards my dream and passion within the field of Marine Biology/Marine Environmental Science. We can chat about it in person but I'll say that I'm very excited!

That aside, you can usually find me volunteering, planning game/movie/cooking nights with friends, occasionally helping to DJ and/or cater a friend's event, random road trips with friends and planning what state/country I should visit next from my ever growing list. Also working on writing my first novel. It's a Dystopian blended genre that will more than likely turn into a series.
I’m really good at
Finding injured/sick animals and helping heal them, telling stores through my music playlists(If I want you to cry, you will be in tears!), wiping out humanity in Plague Inc (My science background has served me well!), being GGG, making people laugh, listening, giving friends advice, helping friends fall asleep over the phone with my voice (it's very soothing, apparently?), Scrabble, Cards Against Humanity, writing stories/poetry, cooking addicting food, giving hugs, cuddles and massages.
The first things people usually notice about me
Depends on where/when they see or hear me. Usually goes between:

• My smile and dimples.
• My eyes when they change color from time to time.
• Am told I exude a sense of balance & calmness. Usually paired with the comment that I must be an old soul.
• Occasionally one of my accents if it is drawn out; I have several naturally and pick up others if I am around it for long enough.
•If at Barnes & Nobles: "What the... is that guy really about to buy all those books!?" No, there's more than likely a second pile nearby that you aren't seeing at that moment.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
There are many more to each category. Occasionally I try to shorten it but end up making it longer 3/4's of the time. -sigh-

Favorite Books/Authors:
ALL THE BOOKS!!! I read a lot of Science Fiction, YA and Paranormal mysteries; also unapologetically a fan of Dystopian novels. If someone I trust recommends a title, I'm willing to give it a try no matter what the genre. Some of my favorite authors include Sergei Lukyanenko, Tamora Pierce, David Clement-Davies, Suzzane Collins, Veronica Roth, Keri Arthur, G.P. Taylor, Amelia Atwater-Rhodes, Faith Hunter, J.R. Rowling, Stephanie Meyer, Douglass Adams and Neal Shusterman

**Anyone have any recommendations as to what other amazing books might be worth reading?**

Favorite Movies:
Anything by Hayao Miyazaki or Pixar, Indiana Jones & The Raiders of The Lost Jedi Temple of Doom(No, I did not make this up, go google it or come over and watch it. Was awesome~), Bad Boyz I & II, Vampire Hunter D, and The Fast & The Furious Collection, to name "a few". Believe me, there's a lot more.

Favorite TV Shows:
In short, give me anime, sci-fi, crime/mystery, cooking, comedy, nature or supernatural/paranormal and I'm usually content, though there are other things I like as well. I haven't gotten into Game of Thrones yet (only seen two random episodes from the fifth season) but looks amazing and planning to start it soon(If you're willing to be my binging buddy l/guide, I will repay you with delicious homemade food and/or massages; your choice). Recently got into Stranger Things; SO MUCH YES!

Favorite Music:
Music - yes please! Lately I've especially been into a lot of Techno/Trance, Swiss/Celtic Folk Metal & instrumentals from various sources but any type has the potential to move me. ANYTHING by the London Philharmonic Orchestra or Lindsey Stirling is an instant win with me. Also been somewhat addicted to Nightcore as of late.

Favorite Games:
When i do play, RPG/Adventures are the way to my heart. They are essentially interactive books with wonderful music scores, outstanding visuals, compelling storylines and you often get to choose how the story turns out with your actions/inactions. What more can an avid reader/writer ask for?!

Favorite Foods:
Japanese, Italian, Hispanic, Thai, Soup Dumplings(must learn to make these...), Chinese and Indian; they are all delicious. I'll try most types of foods once and then again to see if I like it. Then buy the ingredients to experiment on ways to make it even better and more addicting to those who try it after I'm through.
Six things I could never do without
Aside from my friends and family (which I know aren't "things", shush!) and in no particular order, I couldn't do without:

1. Nature - Especially Rain & Thunderstorms. (You would think having been attacked by a Black Bear in the middle of the night on a camping trip would make me change my thoughts here, but nope. Love the bear too!)
2. Cuddles. I'm a living teddy bear.
3. Stories/Books by my favorite authors
4. My memory foam bed (How did I go so many years without it?!?)
5. Music (-hides mp3 player from sight- The precioussss~)
6. And magic in its many forms.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
• Nature
• How is rape culture not only still a thing in today's 'modern' age but actually getting worse? This new thing called "Stealthing"; I mean, what the actual f*ck humanity?! Also, why is 'ethnic cleansing' becoming a thing, yet again?!
• Why people seek perfection in everything but seldom willing to put in the work towards it or appreciate the 'flaws' which are true perfection; uniqueness.
Zombie Apocalypse and other apocalyptic scenario related debates with friends.
• New recipes I'd like to re-create/invent when I'm cooking.
• When my favorite authors are going to release their new novels. Then getting frustrated with the answer and continue working on my own novel.
• Empathy and other forms of extrasensory perception/communication.
• Sex & Kink related discussion. We're adults, it happens.
• What the next four years are going to be like with how the last few weeks have been playing out...As well as wondering what would come first... World War III, Cold War II or Civil War II...
• Random ideas and concepts relating to the book I'm writing. I always keep a pen handy just in case an idea springs to mind.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends, exploring somewhere new, curled up at home with a good book or a combination there of. Depends where my head is at in a given week.

Until recently, I've been staying in a little more to help care for one of my relatives and help distract them from the healing process after a major surgery they've had. I use to be a regular dancer at Friday Night Blues FNB until everything occurred, now I pop in every so often. They've improved to the point that I'm starting to go out more again and trying to reconnect with my lover of dancing. Maybe my Friday nights can start including you?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
• My car is lovingly nicknamed The Black Pearl. "Wherever we want to go, we'll go! That's what a car is, you know. It's not just a wheel(s) and a hull and a carburetor and engine, that's what a car needs but what a car is... What the Black Pearl really is... is freedom."

• Despite how social I am, I find myself preferring the company of animals to most people. I don't see a problem here; animals are awesomesauce! If you haven't taken a nap amidst a cuddle pile of animals at least once, you are missing out on a key life moment.
You should message me if
Because you want to...? As long as you have a sense of humor, kind & the concept of forming bonds aren't something that makes you want to flee in terror, I think we'll do just fine. Just be honest and be yourself; yay communication!

• You are someone who is open-minded, respectful and accepting of people for all of their unique identities. I'm going to be blunt: I'm a community ally and several of my closest friends whom you'd inevitably meet if you become an integral part of my life don't always follow the traditional relationship rubric. If you can't/won't respect my friends on basic principle, then that's a negativity I don't need as part of my life.

• You'd like to go out for a drink/coffee/food/random hike and get to know one another face to face, sooner rather than later (assuming we are both in the same relative area). It's the best way to get a feel for one another.
The two of us