38 Bristol, United Kingdom
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My self-summary
Learning and (trying to be) active in the poly circles. Discovering that ethical non-monogamy isn't as easy as it sounds.
Laid back and looking for fun, love, snuggles, sex, and sun. Not necessarily in that order.
If I can make time to catch some sun this year that would be great.
Work to hard and play to little - this really should be the other way around!... Oh and sleeping far to much.

The what I'm looking for bit in this needs more work. So attempt number 1:
In the first instance casual sex is a pretty good place to start. It's something I happen to enjoy and would hope that it is something you would be interested in sharing in.
That's not the be all and end all as seems to be implied.
I'm looking for a more casual relationship style, more relationship anarchy is possibly more my appropriate style. I'm not looking for some one to move in with or settle down with. I'm just not that kind of person. Sharing intimate time, life time, play time, my time; some physical and emotional permanence is more what appeals to me.
What I’m doing with my life
Playing when I can.
Sleep when I must,
working when I have to,
Living when I get chance.
I’m really good at

After that the playing with tech, I probably can fix your PC...
Bodger of DIY at expert level if I do say so myself.
Jack of many trades, master of a few. Most computer related. Though over the years I've turned my hand as a chippy, bricky, labourer, sparky, plumber, decorator, gardener. Tried my hand at mechanics - i'm not very good! Art - pencil drawings and scenery were my speciality when I was younger. Rather out of the habit these days unfortunately. Maybe something I'd like to revisit one day. Oh and I'm knitting a scarf for the umpty umpth time, maybe I'll finish this one lol.

I own a pair of roller blades, sometimes I even try them on and take myself for a spin around town... I'm not very good but I can roll in a relatively straight line without breaking myself - or more importantly anyone else.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Dark Tower (and pretty much anything else) by Stephen King, Terry Pratchett, lots of sci-fi and fantasy fiction. Asimov, Philip.K.Dick, Ian M Banks (also without the M), etc.

Blade Runner, Bicentennial Man, Fifth Element, Dune, Dark Crystal, this list could get long. I have a standing collection of about 450 movies - I've watched all of them, and they're all on my 'must watch' list.

I don't really watch telly but if I did... QI, House, Russel Howard, Have I got News for You, that kinda stuff. Or Star trek, SG1, Babylon5, Dark Angel... Mostly all stuff I have on PC or is on the interwebs.

Music wise I'll listen to most stuff. Preference for Rock and old school rave. Prince Purple Rain, Pink Floyd, White Snake, Scissor Sisters, Moby, Ministry, Fugees, Pogues, Black Eyed Peas, Bob Marley, Catatonia, Eurythmics, Faithless, ZZ top, Leftfield, Ministry of Sound...

Obviously Vegetarian foods, Halloumi burger @ the Gryphon omnomnom, italian pasta is always a strong favourite @ Ciaos by the Hippodrome, Bill's Restaurant top of Park street/Queens road. Oh and The Crazy Fox cafe because it's lovely. And any greasy spoon that does a veggie breakfast with no eggs! Why do they insist on eggs???
The six things I could never do without
sex is pretty high on this list.
probably followed by breathing, sleeping, food, good conversation,
and keeping the shadows at bay!

As an added bonus some form of internet access usually keeps me sane - ish!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Anything, everything, nothing!

Maybe I should be a crazy cat person, instead I'm probably just crazy, and a cat?
On a typical Friday night I am
To be fair its most likely going to be curl up with a film...

But on the rare occasions, it seems, when something else happens then the list below is an accurate description of the most likely alternatives.

Going out to the pub to spend time with friends.
Sometimes I'll drink - double rum and lemonade, no ice please.
Other times I'll stay sober - pint of orange juice and lemonade, and again, no ice!. Most likely to stay sober these days. I've kinda given up on drinking as the hangovers began to last longer and longer, the appeal of getting drunk diminished similarly.

Go to one my favorite restaurants and relax with good company, good food, and good coffee.

Stay in with a film or 2 on the big screen. Snuggle up probably with some lemonade or maybe a bottle of that sparkly stuff -Shloer- lol.

Go for a spin on the scooter, its a 125cc tourer, it's huge. I'm happy with this, not looking to become a biker lol. It'd be nice to get the L plates off soon though...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not as indestructible as I used to be.

ChainedInSin on FL ;)
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