35Philadelphia, United States
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My self-summary
~Philly is my home. I've got the brotherly love to prove it!
~I've lived in Rome, Brooklyn, Vermont, India and Seoul.
~I don't have those accents to prove it, but I do have the visas.
~Grew up with 2 professional artists as parents.
~Open to make any connection whether it's love or "a good time"
~Never just dated in my 20s, always was in relationships.
~I got no game or pick up skills therefore I'm single.
~I want a woman to share the fun of life with & laugh together.
~I can't live comfortably with myself if I am not genuine.
~You'll meet many jerks but I assure you I'm not one of 'em.
~I love people who embrace what makes them different.
~I like women who are free spirits and emotionally mature.
~I want to be valued for my personality and not my looks.
~I'm an OG hopeful romantic.
~I judge people by what they do, not what they say.
~Worst thing you can do is lie, deceive or play games with me.
~Be honest and I will respect you tremendously.

I'm in a dating predicament. I want my next relationship to be with someone exceptional and I have reason to expect much and be particular. The best way of to getting to know me is in person. Even if I am just hooking up with someone, being caring and attentive comes so naturally, it causes the girl I'm with to develop feelings, me too. Whether it be long-term relationships or flings, I've been told I treat women much better than most guys do. Until I find “the one” I want meet new people even if it is short-term. Ideally I'd like to make a meaningful connection where we both learn, love, hurt and grow from the experience and either become great friends or great memories. Such is life.
What I’m doing with my life
Ubering It &
Retired teacher/Social Service worker &
Audio engineering post grad &
Writer and aspiring scriptwriter &
Designing and building furniture &
Spreading joy like wildfire
I’m really good at
Naming things or experiences.
Cooking dinner in 30 minutes or less.
Finding humor in all the worst/unlikely places.
Being brutally honest and doing it tastefully.
Brewing fresh coffee in my undies.
Trying not to dance like a white guy.
Compassion, forgiveness, communicating.
Driving in snowstorms.
The first things people usually notice about me
My greenish eyes ... but you already noticed that didn't you?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
David Bowie.. David Bowie.. David Bowie.. Car Seat Headrest.. Mogwai.. David Bowie.. Frank Ocean.. Kanye West.. David Bowie.. Radiohead.. MIA.. Avalanches.. Warpaint.. David Bowie.. Aurora.. Cass McCombs... are in or near my CD player
-I like all the movies & TV shows (Westworld! Atlanta! Black Mirror!!)
-I like some of the books and food
Six things I could never do without
1. Meditation 2. My CDs and Vinyls 3. Sense of Community 4. Coffee 5. Laughing at the absurd 6. The Inspiration...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...How to win at the play of life. ...The music and musicians I listen to and admire. ...Philosophy and bigger questions about the nature of life/living. ...Nothing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Open Minded.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've never had a one night stand (in America).
You should message me if
...you have ever seen the movie Blue Valentine (or have not) ... when Gosling talks about how women are not romantic like men, how women settle for whoever is the best guy in their picture ... if Ryan Gosling is not talking about you, message me. If you are a romantic woman who is brave, confident, adventurous in spirit, dynamic, cultured and believes in putting your heart and feelings on the line if it could lead to a special connection, message me.

...you want to get to know me more than you want to just get compliments.

...you're not an endless message machine. You will actually meet for at least a coffee date.

...you are not going to project every bad experience or mistreatment that a guy has done to you in the past onto me.
The two of us