I’m a cuddle slut, monogamy on that level be damned. I’m also a good match for ethical sluts in general because I won’t try to control you and I’m not prone to be jealous. I could also be a good match for a monogamist because I can get pretty focused on one person and don’t really want the work of maintaining multiple romances – whether you're doing that on your end or not. That said, I feel most inclined to connect with those not set on monogamy, for now. Also, I have a penchant for threesomes and the like. It’s been a while since I’ve done much of that but I could get enthused about it. It’s a plus if you share that enthusiasm or curiosity, but not a must.
Read "Macho Girly Boy" where it says "Other" above, with the gender identity stuff. I'm too Cis man for some queers, but I was subtly subverting Cis masculinity way before it was cool.
I’ve had a hand in anarchist agitations and pranks over the last 25 years. Also various educational projects, and actions against war, budget cuts for education, and the general absurdity and screwy priorities of capitalist civilization. We need to get better at these things, obviously.
Getting out into beautiful natural places is essential for me, and I love sharing this experience with others. I've spear-headed a collective land project northwest of Yosemite towards this end. It operates as remote getaway and alternative retreat center of sorts, three hours east of the bay area.
I play clarinet in the Brass Liberation Orchestra, an activist marching band.
Some Books: Letters of Insurgents, by Freddy Perlman; The Man Who Fell In Love with the Moon, by Tom Spanbauer.
Some Films: Themroc (1973), The Sweet Movie (1974), How to Get Ahead in Advertising (1989), Delicatessen (1991), Libertarias (1996), Sin Noticias De Dios (2001).
I’ve been collecting unusual films and I have about 160 of them. Most I’ve not seen yet.
Some music: I'm obsessed with punk female vocalists. I love a lot of diverse music and have a pretty huge collection, over 200 GB of Funk, Afrobeat, punk, ska, hip hop, Japanoise, folk, experimental, jazz, free improv, old anarchist songs, blues, some electronic, Mexican rock, metal, rock, a ton of ethnic stuff, including over 8 GB of Roma & Flamenco, old Angolan pop, The Oriental Brothers (from eastern Nigeria), and Congotronics.
I play clarinet with a marching band (see above).
Some food: Ethiopian & Burmese, when going out. Thai curries and a spicy Iraqi pesto-like sauce, called “S'choog”(sp?), when I'm cooking.
Generally, radical social critique, poetry, song-writing schemes.
And I geek out on communication around touch and intimacy a lot....