47Berkeley, United States
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My self-summary
This is ridiculous. We should be getting to know each other in some kind of context. A dance party, an uprising, a backpacking trip, a singalong or music jam, a witch camp? Oh well, I guess we’ll figure it out.

I’m a cuddle slut, monogamy on that level be damned. I’m also a good match for ethical sluts in general because I won’t try to control you and I’m not prone to be jealous. I could also be a good match for a monogamist because I can get pretty focused on one person and don’t really want the work of maintaining multiple romances – whether you're doing that on your end or not. That said, I feel most inclined to connect with those not set on monogamy, for now. Also, I have a penchant for threesomes and the like. It’s been a while since I’ve done much of that but I could get enthused about it. It’s a plus if you share that enthusiasm or curiosity, but not a must.

Read "Macho Girly Boy" where it says "Other" above, with the gender identity stuff. I'm too Cis man for some queers, but I was subtly subverting Cis masculinity way before it was cool.
What I’m doing with my life
I’ll be finishing an undergrad degree in Integrative Biology in the next few years at UC Berkeley. At the moment I’m indulging in music classes towards adding that as a double major when I get myself officially readmitted soon.

I’ve had a hand in anarchist agitations and pranks over the last 25 years. Also various educational projects, and actions against war, budget cuts for education, and the general absurdity and screwy priorities of capitalist civilization. We need to get better at these things, obviously.

Getting out into beautiful natural places is essential for me, and I love sharing this experience with others. I've spear-headed a collective land project northwest of Yosemite towards this end. It operates as remote getaway and alternative retreat center of sorts, three hours east of the bay area.

I play clarinet in the Brass Liberation Orchestra, an activist marching band.
I’m really good at
Cuddling, communicating, kissing, massaging, listening, conversing, drawing people out of their shells, petting cats and getting even difficult ones to like me, cooking, social networking, learning languages, Botany, Mycology, memorizing and singing long ballads that I play on guitar, planning good backpacking trips.
The first things people usually notice about me
My long braids, and my playful quirky renegade sense of the world.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The last 2 ½ years I’ve been singing classical music in choruses. Sometimes I get bored with recorded music...I like to sing with people. I love rounds and improvisational singing games. And I can get people singing with me while I play guitar or piano.

Some Books: Letters of Insurgents, by Freddy Perlman; The Man Who Fell In Love with the Moon, by Tom Spanbauer.

Some Films: Themroc (1973), The Sweet Movie (1974), How to Get Ahead in Advertising (1989), Delicatessen (1991), Libertarias (1996), Sin Noticias De Dios (2001).
I’ve been collecting unusual films and I have about 160 of them. Most I’ve not seen yet.
Some music: I'm obsessed with punk female vocalists. I love a lot of diverse music and have a pretty huge collection, over 200 GB of Funk, Afrobeat, punk, ska, hip hop, Japanoise, folk, experimental, jazz, free improv, old anarchist songs, blues, some electronic, Mexican rock, metal, rock, a ton of ethnic stuff, including over 8 GB of Roma & Flamenco, old Angolan pop, The Oriental Brothers (from eastern Nigeria), and Congotronics.

I play clarinet with a marching band (see above).

Some food: Ethiopian & Burmese, when going out. Thai curries and a spicy Iraqi pesto-like sauce, called “S'choog”(sp?), when I'm cooking.
Six things I could never do without
I thought I could do without answering this question, but OkC keeps telling me my profile is incomplete.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Lately Music history.
Generally, radical social critique, poetry, song-writing schemes.
And I geek out on communication around touch and intimacy a lot....
On a typical Friday night I am
Seeing friends, making dinner, dancing at a house party, or being a hermit and writing songs.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Though I can't wink one eye without flinching the other, I'm learning to differentiate and "wink" with the front, right, back, and left sides of my anus, independently. It's a Taoist "sexual gung fu" thing.
You should message me if
You have something to say.
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