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My self-summary
Hello okc. It's been a while. I'm currently not looking for a relationship but I would like to make friends in the Columbia area.

I am a series of contradictions and confusions. I am a white knight in tattered armor, the patron saint of second chances. At times I am human and a hypocrite but I compensate with my lust for living.

I am a shy one but I hope that you'll find my awkwardness to be a part of my undeniable charm ;P

My sexuality and ideas of gender are fluid and I typically identify as Queer. I've been described this way once and I kinda love it:
"You look like a lesbian but you're queer as fuck." I'm also Pansexual.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm just resurfacing from a very damaging emotionally abusive relationship. It was hellish. It took a major toll on my mental, emotional, and physical health.

As a result, I'm not in a dating head space and I don't know when I will feel that inclination again.

I'm hoping to use this site to meet likeminded people to talk to. My social circle was decimated over the last year and I have to rebuild from the ground up.
I’m really good at
Being a student.
The first things people usually notice about me
I guess in regards to physical features that stick out...I have blue eyes, they tend to get a fair amount of attention.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Ann Rice [Interview With a Vampire, The Vampire Lestat etc]
J.K. Rowling [The Harry Potter series]
Kim Harrison [The Rachel Morgan series].

The Harry Potters
V for Vendetta
Pirates of the Caribbean (all of them)
Disney Cartoons

TV Shows:
The L Word

Music: 90s rock, Brand New, Shinedown, AFI, Hurt, Coheed and Cambria, Dashboard Confessional, Korn, Metallica, Kitty, Incubus, Elton John, Alanis Morsette, Pink, Trans-Siberian Orchestra, Him, Iron and Wine, Mumford and Sons, and many more.

Food: I'm kind of a picky eater. I'm the kind of person who has "a usual" type dish picked out at all my frequented restaurants.
The six things I could never do without
1. Food, Shelter, Water
2. Family
3. Literature
4. Friends
5. My Cell Phone
6. A Feeling of Accomplishment
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How other people perceive me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Enjoying some much needed leisure time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My left eye gets squinty when I smile.
It always has.
You should message me if
You are interested in talking to me =].
All I ask is if you message me please satisfy my love for the English language. No chat speak.

Also, I ask for your patience. I'm not always checking my okc so there may be delays between my correspondence.