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My self-summary
Hello okc. It's been a while. I'm currently not looking for a relationship but I would like to make friends in the Columbia area.

I am a series of contradictions and confusions. I am a white knight in tattered armor, the patron saint of second chances. At times I am human and a hypocrite but I compensate with my lust for living.

I am a shy one but I hope that you'll find my awkwardness to be a part of my undeniable charm ;P

My sexuality and ideas of gender are fluid and I typically identify as Queer. I've been described this way once and I kinda love it:
"You look like a lesbian but you're queer as fuck." I'm also Pansexual.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm just resurfacing from a very damaging emotionally abusive relationship. It was hellish. It took a major toll on my mental, emotional, and physical health.

As a result, I'm not in a dating head space and I don't know when I will feel that inclination again.

I'm hoping to use this site to meet likeminded people to talk to. My social circle was decimated over the last year and I have to rebuild from the ground up.
I’m really good at
Being a student.
The first things people usually notice about me
I guess in regards to physical features that stick out...I have blue eyes, they tend to get a fair amount of attention.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Ann Rice [Interview With a Vampire, The Vampire Lestat etc]
J.K. Rowling [The Harry Potter series]
Kim Harrison [The Rachel Morgan series].

The Harry Potters
V for Vendetta
Pirates of the Caribbean (all of them)
Disney Cartoons

TV Shows:
The L Word

Music: 90s rock, Brand New, Shinedown, AFI, Hurt, Coheed and Cambria, Dashboard Confessional, Korn, Metallica, Kitty, Incubus, Elton John, Alanis Morsette, Pink, Trans-Siberian Orchestra, Him, Iron and Wine, Mumford and Sons, and many more.

Food: I'm kind of a picky eater. I'm the kind of person who has "a usual" type dish picked out at all my frequented restaurants.
Six things I could never do without
1. Food, Shelter, Water
2. Family
3. Literature
4. Friends
5. My Cell Phone
6. A Feeling of Accomplishment
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How other people perceive me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Enjoying some much needed leisure time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My left eye gets squinty when I smile.
It always has.
You should message me if
You are interested in talking to me =].
All I ask is if you message me please satisfy my love for the English language. No chat speak.

Also, I ask for your patience. I'm not always checking my okc so there may be delays between my correspondence.

This is very important to me so if you read nothing else READ THIS, IT IS IMPORTANT!
Don't message me if:
-you're in a relationship and you DO NOT have consent from your partner to pursue secondary relationships.
-you think being LGBTQ is a sin.
-you're just looking for sex. I'm not there. Not in that headspace. Not me.
-you're racist, classist, elitist, homo/trans phobic, or any other terrible form of discrimination manifested in a human form.

The two of us