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My self-summary
*update* I have recently moved back to NC.. It's interesting to move back to where you grew up. (I spent 10 years in Texas)

Hmmm, what can I say?? I hate these things. :) I never have any idea what to say... ha!

I have lots of friends and love to make new ones. Few make it to the inner circle, though. You know how everyone has the one odd friend? Well, generally that's who I am to my folks. But in reality, I'm just a normal girl. It's nice to think that I'm different or not your typical chick, but I'm not... just conforming to non conformity. I like me and if you don't like it, oh well.

Before you ask, I hate labels. I do like being just me. As far as sexuality, ok, I like women a, um, bit more. But matters of the heart know no boundaries... ***I feel like I need to add to this.*** No, I'm not interested in threesomes. Yes, I think that generally women are more attractive naked than men, sorry guys lol! I am attracted to the person, not the gender. I've been in good and bad relationships with both sexes. If you are going to judge me for seeing the value in what can be viewed as non traditional lifestyle, then keep going. I am a very open minded person and am comfortable with who I am and am accepted by those that love me. I don't need your validation or close minded judgement. When I am with a person, I am with that person, and that is all there is to it. Sorry y'all, I've had too many negative comments recently from folks on here and felt I needed to clarify. Now, back to good stuffs :)

One of my fav things to do besides hanging out, is to sit at home curled up with a book. Or, light my never ending candle collection, put on random music, grab a glass of wine and curl up on my couch and just chill. There's something soothing about it. I adore live music and good company. I'm always willing to try anything once...keeps life interesting. I'm not a glass half empty or full kinda girl. I'm more the girl that wonders who has been sneaking drinks outta my glass :)

Ok, that's about as in depth to my psyche you are gonna get for now. You wanna know, ask away...

I am dorky, charming, and serious
What I’m doing with my life
Not much right now, just coasting along. I have had enough craziness in the last several years.. I'm also trying to reconnect myself with old and new friends, as well as tuning into me.
I’m really good at
Listening and holding your hand when you have major crisis in your life. I am a natural mama hen. Suprising you with my personality. Just when you think you've got me figured out, you find something new. I'm a walking contradiction, as a friend so nicely put it. If you want to figure out what that means, guess you'll have to get to know me. :) I'm also good at kissing...
The first things people usually notice about me
My glasses and my smile. If you've been around me any time then my hair--it tends to change color and cut at a moments notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Oy-vey!! How are you supposed to answer a question like that?? Ok, here goes:

A) just about anything I can get my hands on. I love to read. Here are SOME of the authors I like: Kaye Gibbons, Stephen King, Piers Anthony, Patricia Cornwell, Issac Asimov, Toni Morrison...the list just goes on...

B) Hmm.. I love movies, so I'll short list this with a few that have stuck with me: It's a Wonderful Life, Silence of the Lambs, Better than Chocolate, Back to the Future, Finding Nemo, Serendipity, Blade, The Color Purple, Underworld, Dark Knight, Boondock Saints, Iron Man, Monty Python and the Holy Grail (gotta love that one), Fifty First Dates, Practical Magic, Fight Club, Wall-E, The 13th Warrior, The Postman (and if you like the odd epic Costner movies, you get automatic points lol), and so on and so on... As to tv shows, I have a solid few that I adore, but I find myself without cable right now and I'm ok with it. I have a massive Doctor Who addiction (all of it, not just the new stuff-- 4 was my first, but 10 is now tied for my favourite), White Collar, Warehouse 13, Torchwood, and The Big Bang Theory are some of my recent shows.

C) Like books I listen to everything... My mom taught me there is beauty in ALL music, plus i'm a child of both the 80's and 90's, so there is no set genre i was brought up with. I'll listen to anything from classical to metal. Right now I'm listening to Big Hits of the 80's (ok i'm a sucker for 80's music). I'll just tell what's in my car, it's a tiny piece of the music i like. Good Charlotte, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Bob Seger, Dixie Chicks, A mixed (old) rap cd, Sixpence None the Richer, Melissa Etheridge, Colbie Caillat, Jason Mraz, Three Days Grace and kd lang i think that's it in there... who knows? I adore live music, so i'll go to a concert whenever i can.

D) hmmm another good one... i love italian, mexican food, sushi, ok, pretty much anything. Although, I just don't believe that tofu is food.. ick!! I like to consider myself a foodie. I'm willing to experiment with food and the kitchen is one of my favourite rooms of any house. It's relaxing to me to cook, sing along with the music, and visit while in the kitchen..
Six things I could never do without
Hmmmm... Ok, friends and family (but for me friends are more like family then the bloodline sometimes), cell phone, my critters, ability to learn, music, passion.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
huh? what?? oh, sorry, i was off in left field again. Hmmmm, mostly life in general, I suppose. How the rain sounds on a tin roof. Why more people don't like thunderstorms? How odd TX weather is. How cute kittens are. What world peace would really entail. How seeing a truly happy couple makes me smile and all fuzzy inside for them. How I can better my life and the lives of my loved ones. If I could just dream of the winning lottery numbers! How much daisies make me happy. What book am I going to read next. A random line for a new poem that I will quickly forget before I write it down. Will the homeless man I saw the other day be warm enough tonight? How our selfish over populating and greediness is hurting our world. How I really want to save the planet, but am a selfish procrastinator. What a sick bastard you have to be to hurt animals or children (or well anyone for that matter actually). What I'm going to fix or paint next in my house. How funny it is when I giggle out loud at my stupid thought and those around me want to know what I'm up to. How I can still my rambling mind for a minute to concentrate on the task at hand. How so many people in the world don't understand loyalty. That a little bit of jealousy and possessiveness is ok, but I still need my breathing room. The next time I'm going to get a night free to just hang out with my girls. How awesome sunsets/rises are.... I specialize in having a thousand thoughts about nothing and everything all at one time and at any given time...
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical? What is that? How do you know what typical is??
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a weakness for long hair, ink and piercings. I haven't had long hair in many years, but I adore it on others. Ink... just makes me happy. It's about time for me to to get more work done. Mine are all fairly hideable for work though. And piercings make me smile... I got my nose done long before it was cool. Again, for work, can't really have what I want, but doesn't mean I can't enjoy it on others. These are not prerequisites, just something I was willing to admit. If you have them, all the better, but if not, that is peachy keen :)

Ok, here's a fun odd fact: I am a karaoke addict.

Hmmm, anything else, just ask me. I can be pretty open about things.
You should message me if
Why should you?? For that matter, why shouldn't you? There's nothing to lose, now is there? I'm pretty friendly, just say hi. I promise not to bite unless provoked :)
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