48Downers Grove, United States
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My self-summary
Single Dad. I am an writer, artist and former musician (back in the day). I have never cheated on a woman , there is simply no reason for it. I am into Buddhist philosophy and love to read.

I have found online dating to be very strange. A place where people forget how to speak to each other. A place where people think they can just be a dick to even the nicest people because they hide in the basement somewhere watching meTV.

I live by these words: Truth, respect and loyalty.

I am a romantic kind of guy. Flowers, sure. Maybe some poetry, sure. Opening doors for you, all the time. Hand on the small of your back when you cross the street, absolutely. Silent when you need me to be, yes. My arms available when you just need to be held, you bet.

Looking for a woman who wont just bail if I get a cold (this happened and was quite funny) hahahahahaha. I am a team player looking for a team mate. OH! I don't watch sports at all unless I go to a game, totally different.

If your a heavy drinker, keep going, sorry not for me.

Isn't this is the stuff you ask me when we talk to each other hahahahaha...well that's what I am thinking anyway.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently I am writing a couple of books on dating in your 30's and 40's..... and let me tell you the stories I hear are just hilarious with a heavy dose of "you have got to be kidding me!"

Aside from that, training my son to be the best man he can be with the tools available. Being the Dad I wanted and that my sons need.

Just trying to make it better, each and every day. Sometimes when you've fallen, you forget to get back up...well...DON'T!

The best thing you can do you a person is simply to believe in them, against all odds.
I’m really good at
Art, making people laugh, writing, being a good Dad and trying to make the world a better place. One smile at a time.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes if they are looking at me or my laugh if they are in the same room.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Historical fiction, spy stuff and biographies.
Movies - Anything good
Music - As long as it sounds good, I am there. Not too big on country or the grateful dead. Beyond that I am game!
Six things I could never do without
1. my sons, 2. coffee, 3. the internet, 4. a good book or three 5. laughter, 6. Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where does space end?
Where does the guy who turns on the refrigerator light on go?
Why do women LOVE assholes?
Why am I here?
On a typical Friday night I am
That all depends. I don;t "hang" at bars, so maybe a buddies house or hanging with my kids, perhaps writing or just sitting alone watching the wind blow through the trees and a little star gazing. Possibly sleeping if it has been one of those kinda days.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
HA! Not for the whole world to see...don't worry I have stories to amuse you with....Ok, Ok, I will cop to the superman underoos I had as a kid, but that's as far as I am going on here! hahahahaha
You should message me if
If your looking for a good man who will always let you know he cares about you or is thinking about you through his actions. If your looking for someone who will have your back when you need it and even when you don't. If your looking for someone that will cook for you or hold your hand as we walk through an art fair, etc.....if you want to talk to me, it's that easy!
The two of us