Vendredi13
32 Phoenix, United States
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My self-summary
Hi there! Let me begin with a disclaimer: My calendar tends to fill up 1-2 weeks out, so scheduling any kind of meet up is likely to be a challenge. When I'm not working, roller derby consumes most of my time (I'm a team captain and a manager for our league in addition to skating on multiple teams.)

I'm polyamorous and currently dating someone really amazing, but I'm open to other relationships if the chemistry is there. Open communication and a genuine connection are absolute requirements for a relationship with me. I'm also involved in the local fetish scene. You don't necessarily need to be, but it helps if you at least understand the lifestyle.

***NOTE: I'm REALLY not into full beards, so if that's your preferred state, you're better off barking up a different tree***

I spend most of my free time skating, but I'm down to try just about any activity that doesn't require tons of training (again, time). I've really been focused lately on trying to eat clean and stay active. I enjoy reading and playing video games, but unfortunately those got cut in the quest for a better physical state. I hold myself to high standards, and I prefer partners that do the same for themselves, and who challenge me.
What I’m doing with my life
All things derby
Exploring new hobbies and activities
Nurturing healthy relationships
Traveling whenever I can afford it
Improving myself
Playing with makeup
Working to pay for all the fun stuff above
I’m really good at
Being awkward when meeting new people
Math
Grammar & spelling
Cuddling
Kissing
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The first things people usually notice about me
Tattoos, piercings, colorful hair... pretty face? Not trying to sound conceited; people just comment on it often enough that it must be true. I am lucky to have been blessed with good genes. Thanks mom and dad <3
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This list would take forever if I wrote them all out...
Harry Potter
Chronicles of Narnia
Wizard of Oz books
Queen of the Damned
Anything by Neil Gaiman, Chuck Palahniuk, fantasy, YA fiction, or steampunk, really.

Some of my favorite movies are:
Labyrinth
Sweeney Todd
Return to Oz
Alice in Wonderland
How to Train Your Dragon
Prisoner of Azkaban (well, any HP movie, really), LOTR
Lion the Witch and the Wardrobe.
Fight Club
Deadpool
The list goes on.... I'm also an unashamed Disney movie fan. Aladdin is probably my favorite.

I'm really easy going when it comes to music. I like a little bit of everything. I'm not opposed to listening to Top40/radio, though my favorites don't get a lot of exposure there. I love The Faint, Voltaire, Creature Feature, and Beats Antique. My more mainstream favorites include Muse, afi, Puscifer, Rancid, Flogging Molly...

I don't have a favorite food... really. I am a sucker for an awesome burger though, and I can't stand papaya.
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order, I would be devastated to live without: sex, love, rain, shade (I value my pale complexion), trees, adventures
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Traveling, seeing all the beauty our world has to offer, whether it be natural or man-made. I also spend a lot of time self-analyzing. It's both a blessing and a curse to know myself so well.
On a typical Friday night I am
BAHAHAHA "typical".... there's nothing typical about my Friday nights
You should message me if
- you think we're compatible (preferably poly and a good communicator)
- you understand scheduling anything with me can be a challenge and are OK with that.
- you can respect that I don't give out my number to anyone I haven't met in person.
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