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My self-summary
Random thoughts floating through mind today.

Wondering about myself now for some reason. Why is it so difficult to find friendships anymore? Is it me? Or is it others, probably a combo of both. I am very hesitant to be open to new people at first, and not sure if that turns them off wanting to be friends or even lovers, but am trying to work on that issue. Perhaps I have been hurt or rejected too many times in past or just plain ignored. Dunno, but the close friends I have, I treasure dearly and always keep them in my thoughts.

I have been told by friends they do not understand why I am single or attract the loosers and/or psychos. Maybe I have if you psycho, here I am tattooed on my forehead, but for the life of me I cannot see it there. Who knows, looking for someone who can accept me for all my foilables and to get to know the real me.

Most people consider me warm and caring, and not one to be just out for self gratification. I have a sacarastic wit which does take some time to get use to, but hopefully you'll get the joke. I am an old fart, by gay standards, and most guys my age are going for the 21 year old twinks (I wouldn't turn one down but not limiting myself). I am an overweight guy, so if you cannot look past that and get to know me, then keep on going on by. You are missing out.

I am funny, open minded, and accepting
What I’m doing with my life
Well I am a state worker, trying to keep my job by the tipy tips of my fingernails, and praying I will see a raise again before I retire. Other than job, I have varied interests which we can discuss if you are interested.
I’m really good at
making people feel comfortable (right now have str8 guy here comfortable enough to run around naked). wink (plus he is hot hot hot and got me to complete this profile crap)
The first things people usually notice about me
I am fat. But once they get past that first impression they realize that I am a good person to know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am pretty much an open book just ask and my big mouth will answer
Six things I could never do without
My pets
worry free state of mind
maybe you????
I spend a lot of time thinking about
too many things run through this poor brain at any one time, so give me something to think about
On a typical Friday night I am
I am either hanging with friends or home with the pets
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
open book here, not much i keep hidden -
You should message me if
hey give it a shot, you never know, at the very least we could be friends or we could be more. we can always find something to chat about
The two of us