I do not look for someone else to make me happy....I can be happy, it is a conscious effort. (this took awhile to come to realize)
I have been divorced for a very long time, longer than I was married. I think that we are all works in progress. I would never, ever go back in time to change anything about my life, for fear that I would not be the same person that I am right now...One little thing could change the entire course of my life. I genuinely like myself, and consider myself to be a great second half of the whole relationship.
I am a hard worker, a great friend, a loving daughter, a fun grandma, concerned mother, loyal, honest and kind. I am not shy, and can talk to just about anybody, and just about anything. I have been told by many of my friends, they think I have a word quota. Doesn't everybody. I think if I had to go a whole day without talking my head would explode. :-)
I am kind, beautiful, and fun
I guess the most important thing that you should know about me it that I am here, just like you are here (I hope) looking for LOVE. Honest to goodness, true love!!! Heart stopping, palm sweating, can't seem to breath with-out you.....LOVE!!!, I know its out there. I have witnessed it first hand. I am just waiting for it to land in my ever opened heart....I have been in love. I know it exists. I wish I had taken better care of it while it was visiting. Maybe it is just a little gun shy right now because it does not know how it will be treated (oh so much better) this time when it comes to visit. I guess only time will tell ;)
I never ever let something negative make me feel bad. Nobody can make you happy, happiness is a personal choice. I hope that in the end, people will remember me as someone who was genuinely kind and caring. If you are my friend, or if I touched your life at all, you will always know that you are important to me, and that I love you.
My grown-ups, AKA my kids
and of course there are the essential elements, which I assume are just a given
lets see.....my books, my movies, someone to talk to, someone to help me keep my sanity and secrets...oh there is just so much more!
But, lately, I have come to realize that there is no limit to love, and we should never, ever presume to limit ourselves to anything....Life is limitless, love is endless, and kindness begets kindness!!!
Now, if the question is.....What would you like to do on a typical Friday?, then my answer would be.....I would just like to be with someone, who is kind and caring, interesting, who thinks that I am interesting, sitting and enjoying MY SOMEONE SPECIAL'S conversation and sharing the events of the day, good or bad, not being judged.....just being validated!!