61Oberlin, United States
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My self-summary
Most people find it very hard to self summarize. I, on the other hand, find it very, very easy to summarize myself. I am very easy to get along with (if I like you). I am not hard to read. I am generally happy, I like my job, I love my friends. I do not believe in being mean, just for the sake of being mean.

I do not look for someone else to make me happy....I can be happy, it is a conscious effort. (this took awhile to come to realize)

I have been divorced for a very long time, longer than I was married. I think that we are all works in progress. I would never, ever go back in time to change anything about my life, for fear that I would not be the same person that I am right now...One little thing could change the entire course of my life. I genuinely like myself, and consider myself to be a great second half of the whole relationship.

I am a hard worker, a great friend, a loving daughter, a fun grandma, concerned mother, loyal, honest and kind. I am not shy, and can talk to just about anybody, and just about anything. I have been told by many of my friends, they think I have a word quota. Doesn't everybody. I think if I had to go a whole day without talking my head would explode. :-)

I am kind, beautiful, and fun
What I’m doing with my life
I work everyday, and try to stay on the positive side of everything.
I guess the most important thing that you should know about me it that I am here, just like you are here (I hope) looking for LOVE. Honest to goodness, true love!!! Heart stopping, palm sweating, can't seem to breath with-out you.....LOVE!!!, I know its out there. I have witnessed it first hand. I am just waiting for it to land in my ever opened heart....I have been in love. I know it exists. I wish I had taken better care of it while it was visiting. Maybe it is just a little gun shy right now because it does not know how it will be treated (oh so much better) this time when it comes to visit. I guess only time will tell ;)
I’m really good at
Making friends, and having fun, whenever and where-ever. I am someone who does not like drama, and will walk miles out of the way to avoid it. I try to see the humor in everything, and am constantly amazed and delighted by my friends and everything that they teach me.

I never ever let something negative make me feel bad. Nobody can make you happy, happiness is a personal choice. I hope that in the end, people will remember me as someone who was genuinely kind and caring. If you are my friend, or if I touched your life at all, you will always know that you are important to me, and that I love you.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile. :-D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I think we all go through many phases in life. I know I do, I have different favorites at different times. And that includes just about everything in my, books, movies, circle of friends......Sometimes I like things and sometimes I don't.
Six things I could never do without
My Faith
My grown-ups, AKA my kids
My humor
and of course there are the essential elements, which I assume are just a given
lets books, my movies, someone to talk to, someone to help me keep my sanity and secrets...oh there is just so much more!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life in general, everything and nothing...I wonder lately that maybe all those years that I said things out loud...oh, like...we only get one great love in our lives....maybe, because I put it out there, maybe just maybe, I jinxed myself......I'm a thinker, no doubt.
But, lately, I have come to realize that there is no limit to love, and we should never, ever presume to limit ourselves to anything....Life is limitless, love is endless, and kindness begets kindness!!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Well, I guess that would depend on who I am with. If I am with family, then it's family things, and if I am with friends, then it's typically the things that friends do.....
Now, if the question is.....What would you like to do on a typical Friday?, then my answer would be.....I would just like to be with someone, who is kind and caring, interesting, who thinks that I am interesting, sitting and enjoying MY SOMEONE SPECIAL'S conversation and sharing the events of the day, good or bad, not being judged.....just being validated!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
No way........... :-)...well okay, I am addicted to Facebook, come and find me....Vicki Hensley Dudek
You should message me if
You are interesting, kind, funny, loving, sincere.
The two of us