Serious martial artist, silly person, submissive, but only to those I choose to submit to. I have a lot of chronic pain, but I still practice Kyokushin, and live a full life. I am Asatru- not the racist kind. Have also picked up a wee bit of Zen Buddhism, by virtue of practicing Sado, heh.
Potentially looking for a local secondary to date and have a long term relationship with. I am really needing an experienced dominant.
My primary and I are very close. He wants to talk to anyone who wants to meet up with me. We are polyamorous- we have a non-monogamous relationship with no cheating. Everyone knows, everyone consents. I only get to see him about once a week because of his job, but we are engaged to be married, eventually!
I have a dom that I occasionally play with as well. He's in the closet and isn't into meeting other people. We don't really get much time with each other, however.
I am not here to help anybody cheat on their wife/girlfriend/etc- I am poly, and the consent of all parties is required! That includes YOUR partner.
Working with animals.
Finding interesting people.
Well, honestly, I'm not very good at bragging about myself... This is one of the most awkward questions on here. How do you answer something like this without sounding like a total prat?
I can't read other people's minds. Heh. This section is all guessing on my part.
Yeah, there's a lot of neat stuff we WANT. You'd be amazed what you can actually do without, if you need to survive, however.
Love. Joy. Gratitude. Will. Respect. Honor. Compassion. Orgasms.
Also, how I'm possibly going to survive in this world.
I'm too stubborn to give up though! :}
If I have a bit of money, I might be off at the local kink cafe (yep, San Francisco has a cafe for kinky people) with my beloved, or some friends.
Occasionally I'll go to Citadel, too.
After getting about 50 messages from random people on here, I think the following brief guide might greatly benefit a majority of the denizens of OKCupid. At least the ones who actually bother to read profiles.
Good: "Hello there! I am SomeGuy, and your profile caught my attention because of *interest* and *statement.* My interests include *interest* and *interest,* and I'd love to hear more about what you love about *mutual interest* Thanks for your time, and I hope to hear back!"
Unimpressive: "hi how are you"
Fail: "u got sexy titties I wud lick them all nite. 999-999-9999 call me."
Pro Tip: would your approach, if delivered in person, get you slapped, or possibly kicked someplace sensitive? Be honest with yourself on this one.
Message me if you want to make friends and talk about horses, or martial arts.
I just love:
Good law enforcement officers
BDSM community members.
Lastly, and to reiterate, if you want to converse with me, you should message me if you are willing and able to engage in polite, meaningful conversation with which we can get to know one another a bit. "hey how r u" and "nice tits" will not convince me to skype with you or call you. Please be willing to chat on here for a while. Let's learn about each other's personalities and passions in life.
Hint: going on and on about your fetish and what you want to do with me is not us getting to know each other.
Now, if you've got past all that:
I'm looking for an experienced dominant who is looking for a secondary, to date. Someone who is open and honest about their relationships, and isn't sneaking around on anybody. Someone who is willing to go out on adventures and be seen in public with me.