32 Hamilton, Canada
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My self-summary
Profile Revision presetly underway. Last changed: 2015-01-27
What I’m doing with my life
Wasting it, or so it would appear by normal standards.
I’m really good at
Ruining relationships when that nasty apathy sets in. Luckily if I have a relationship with someone who is active and "in your face", apathy doesn't have much of an opportunity to take root.

I have helped a number of youths come out. According to one young lesbian, I am also a fantastic roleplayer, but she might be biased since I cater a lot of my material to her perverse and widely varying fetish interests. Please do not interpret this as an open invitation to ask for roleplay sessions or "cybering". I may have interest in it, but it's a fleeting interest. I am quite apt at causing pain and discomfort. I also have an exceptionally high "Creep" aura, and can often make people wish to avoid me. If, however, you are like the girl I currently live with, you will just find me "cute" and "silly".
The first things people usually notice about me
When I am being myself, people will likely notice that I am not normal in appearance or behaviour. While pretending to be normal, I hope the opposite is true, lest my fascade be pointless.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I prefer reading online material over written, though Terry Pratchett's work strikes me as very witty and intelligent. I enjoy a wide variety of movie genres and music genres, and am a chef and a gourmand.
The six things I could never do without
Intellect, different foods, data media, art, entertainment, hatred, the number seven.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I use to think about myself a lot, and if I have a place in the moulding of the human race or not. I have come to several conclusions stemming from that self-reflection, and I am now ready to move on to the period in which I attempt to fulfill my objectives. As such, I now spend a great deal of time thinking of how best to apply myself and my talents, how best to surpass my shortcomings, and the means to reaching some of my loftier goals.

I still haven't duelled with Laertes, though. I should get on that so I can finally move on to attempting to kill Claudius.
On a typical Friday night I am
I use to spend most Friday nights playing video games or surfing the internet. Then, while working at my previous place of employment, I spent them closing that accursed photo store in Jackson Square. Lately I have reverted to my old ways for the most part, but occasionally have sex with my poly house-mate. If neither of the above, I'm sleeping or attending some event. Now, Thursday nights, on the other hand, I typically spend trying to develop contacts in the Toronto IGDA chapter meetings or in the local BDSM scene. I am most interested in fulfilling the Dominant role, though I have been referred to as a service top, and I am willing to switch if I feel the situation calls for it. I have an affinity for sadomasochism, needle and edge play, blood, urophagia, and an ever-growing list of fetishes which strike me as interesting. I have had some experience, and feel quite confident in my abilities with smaller needles and scalpels. Though I would very much like to find some submissives interested in assisting me in exploration and trials to further develop my skill.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Though I have a growing network of contacts and people who use the term "friendship" to describe my relationship with them, I am lonely. I have conversed with very few people online who could come close to alleviating that loneliness, though ultimately something always interferes.
You should message me if
You are interested in having a conversation. I use a service known as Skype. ( ) I recommend it. I have two accounts, one for home and one for travel.
Failing that, I'd really prefer the use of conventional email services. OkCupid has far too many bugs for my taste, and I don't like how it constantly loses or garbles messages, or how the in-laid chat system they have will crash every alternative step.