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My self-summary
Profile Revision very much overdue. Last minor change: 2017-01-07 Last major change: Some time before 2013
What I’m doing with my life
Working in the daily grind with few things to maintain my (in)sanity, attempting to raise financial leverage for independent restaurant plans.
I’m really good at
being a creep apparently. I seem to have a supernatural talent for making people want to avoid me, although I could be described using the same label Douglas Adam's Ford Prefect gave to our planet.

I have a passion for sex (not just in terms of the physical activity, but the whole biological, social, cultural, political, historical, etc.-al application of the word). To this end, I have helped a number of youths come out or work through their gender identity concerns, or discover their interest in BDSM.

I roleplay extensively and have acquired a small band of dedicated gamers who appreciate my style of GMing. I tend to be very narratively focused, bending or breaking gameplay rules in service of the players' enjoyment.

I am quite apt at causing pain and discomfort, both physical and mental (also emotional, although that's usually accidental). As a sadist I am eager to develop positive relationships with masochists.
The first things people usually notice about me
When I am being myself, people will likely notice that I am not normal in appearance or behaviour. While pretending to be normal, I hope the opposite is true, lest my fascade be pointless.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I tend to have fewer difficulties with online textual material compared to written or physically published, though the late Terry Pratchett's work strikes me as very witty and intelligent. I enjoy a wide variety of movie genres and music genres, and am a professional cook (striving toward the title of chef) and a gourmand.
Six things I could never do without
Intellect, different foods, data media, art, entertainment, hatred, the number seven.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
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I use to think about myself a lot, and if I have a place in the moulding of the human race or not. I have come to several conclusions stemming from that self-reflection, and I am now ready to move on to the period in which I attempt to fulfill my objectives. As such, I now spend a great deal of time thinking of how best to apply myself and my talents, how best to surpass my shortcomings, and the means to reaching some of my loftier goals.

I still haven't duelled with Laertes, though. I should get on that so I can finally move on to attempting to kill Claudius.
On a typical Friday night I am
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I use to spend most Friday nights playing video games or surfing the internet. Then, while working at my previous place of employment, I spent them closing that accursed photo store in Jackson Square. Lately I have reverted to my old ways for the most part, but occasionally have sex with my poly house-mate. If neither of the above, I'm sleeping or attending some event. Now, Thursday nights, on the other hand, I typically spend trying to develop contacts in the Toronto IGDA chapter meetings or in the local BDSM scene. I am most interested in fulfilling the Dominant role, though I have been referred to as a service top, and I am willing to switch if I feel the situation calls for it. I have an affinity for sadomasochism, needle and edge play, blood, urophagia, and an ever-growing list of fetishes which strike me as interesting. I have had some experience, and feel quite confident in my abilities with smaller needles and scalpels. Though I would very much like to find some submissives interested in assisting me in exploration and trials to further develop my skill.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Though I have a growing network of contacts and people who use the term "friendship" to describe my relationship with them, I am lonely. I have conversed with very few people online who could come close to alleviating that loneliness, though ultimately something always interferes.
You should message me if
You are interested in having a conversation or are a Hamilton area submissive / masochist with similar interests and mentality.
I would really prefer the use of conventional email services. OkCupid has far too many failings and limitations for my taste. My gmail and hotmail accounts sport the same name as I use here.
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