48 O'Fallon, United States
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My self-summary
I am a person that is VERY engrossed in the arts and it's many diversities. It flows through my veins and I present it aesthetically in conjunction with what I do. Music is IMPERATIVE to my LIFE and I seek solace in it whenever I can, driven to the ALTERNATIVE or HEAVY side of it. I ALSO have a PASSION for classical pieces with an EMPHASIS on piano fortes, I am not only ABLE to READ music, I can PLAY it. I am NOT easily amused and DON'T tolerate DRAMA in any form or fashion. Life is too short to be SQUANDERED on INCESSANT NONSENSE or the INSTANT BULLSHIT. Being from Chicago, I do not START trouble, HOWEVER if it comes to ME I WILL FINISH IT.
What I’m doing with my life
I have MANY responsibilities and it is IMPORTANT that I tend to EACH and EVERY one. I work hard and enjoy travel, new experiences, locations, and people. My love for going to the gym is evident as it clears my MIND, relieves STRESS, and makes me STRONGER. Running 5K's is my current obsession, and I plan on indulging in the ROCK AND ROLL half marathon this autumn. I also want to eventually do the "FILTHY FIFTY" at some point. I participate in CHARITIES whenever I can, PARTICULARLY those dealing with WOMEN and CHILDREN surviving ABUSE or battling Cancer.
I’m really good at
I consider myself an extrovert and can converse and interact with ANY type of personality. Truth be told, I LOVE people and I rarely EVER meet a stranger. My work is EXTREMELY important to me, and I pride myself on PERFECTING my skill and bringing out the BEST artistic result in my endeavors.
The first things people usually notice about me
I do NOT look like everyone else and that is the EXACT intention. Most people take notice of my hair, makeup, clothes, and tattoos. It gives me a chance to interact with a DIVERSE genre of people and invite them into a small window of my world.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am an avid lover of the classics along with some modern writers. I am drawn to that Gothic - historical type of writing and do some creating myself. I enjoy going to the movies and there are too many favorites to choose from. Musically, I prefer HEAVY, HARD CORE styles. From OLD SCHOOL l to MODERN I embrace it all. I am ITALIAN, therefore I'm sure the cuisine I prefer is pretty evident. I can also cook like a MOFO, pretty much any style of FARE. I also try to eat pretty healthy with chicken and salads being my favorites.
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What my purpose is in this life, and whom I ALLOW to enter and enrich it. I am EXTREMELY selective pertaining to this METHOD and CONCEPT.
On a typical Friday night I am
Considering I work all week, there may be times when I wish to go OUT. There are OTHER times I wish to just stay home and relax in the comfort of my surroundings.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I AM a rock star, but NOT a PARTY person. I like peace, introspection, intellectual discourse, relaxation, and have ZERO TOLERANCE for DRAMA and NONSENSE. Being a STRONG personality, there is NO hesitation calling someone OUT. I live a VERY clean life and do NOT do anything to poison my body such as smoke excessively, (I DO indulge in the occasional CIGAR) drink, use drugs, or have RANDOM intimate encounters with males. I'm OLD SCHOOL and prefer to KEEP it that way. I'm true to HOW I was raised and fully UNDERSTAND my WORTH and what I have to offer. Males who are looking for the proverbial SIDE BONE, move the HELL on, I am wanting someone who UNDERSTANDS I'm the ALPHA and the OMEGA, and can put it DOWN as such. NON-NEGOTIABLE. This portion of what I wrote is NOT "private", everyone who KNOWS me comprehends the fact I WILL NEVER "settle" for being SECOND.
You should message me if
I will ONLY accept conversation from people who are mentally SOUND, INTELLIGENT, QUICK WITTED, CHARMING, and have GOALS and life AMBITIONS. I am NOT looking to be any ones COUGAR experience, nor will I play NURSE to an INVALID. I prefer someone who is MATURE in what they BELIEVE and understands the mind is the ONE true aphrodisiac and ALL laws of attraction begin THERE. Communication is of UTMOST, PARAMOUNT, importance, second only to TRUST, in conjunction with a METICULOUS appearance, and sense of HUMOR. The MORE sarcastic the BETTER. I am not the type of woman who grabs her purse and runs out the door to meet some male on SHORT notice, I am a slow roller and prefer to get to know someone in depth via IM, texting, phone conversation, and messaging before I FEEL comfortable enough to take the NEXT step. It will NOT happen until I am at ease with the person, therefore, do NOT ask nor pressure me to do so. Do NOT message me if you are looking for a MEANINGLESS sexual encounter, because you will be PISSING into the WIND on that mark. A MEETING of the MINDS, a CONNECTION of SOULS, a fire RAGING between two HEARTS. That is the EPITOME of ecstasy AND satisfaction to the nth degree.