43 San Francisco, United States
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My self-summary
Sticking my toe into the online dating waters is scary yet admittedly exhilarating. The idea that someone just might actually be out there that excites me and keeps me guessing makes this bit of a very personal social experiment of sorts exciting.

I guess I'll get just get it out of the way now. Identity can be a very important thing when dating and being up front and open about such is equally important. I definitely identify myself as being apart of the queer community. I have a strong feminine side and a proud feminist of sorts. People tend to have different ideas on just what being a feminist though. I do identify as transgendered and have been my whole life. It is a part of me that I would never change. My day to day life is spent in guy mode though. I come off as the mild mannered Clark Kent but the reality is much more a Lois Lane! Ideally I'd love to find someone that was accepting of me being me. The dating world is tough and for some of us it is even tougher.

Romantically my preferences lean towards women. I labelled myself as "bisexual" because sexually speaking I do consider myself as such. Emotionally however I gravitate towards women. I enjoy the company of women and share much more in common with women. Throughout my life it has always been as such.

I can be a bit of a puzzle and can keep you guessing. I would say I have a quirky dry sense of humor and love to laugh and make others laugh. I consider myself to be intelligent but in the same breath I'll be the first to tell you that there is so much I don't know. I love to learn and love being around people that both make me think and educate me on things I might not have ever thought of. I am ever evolving. I believe change is one of the most important things a person can embrace throughout their whole life. This is something that I find very attractive in a partner. I love a good conversation and have an adept ear to listen.

That is a brief attempt at a self summary. Probably much more then I really wanted to write but it is definitely far short of who I really am. If you feel like you want to know more it is pretty simple...

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What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying it.
I’m really good at
Being a dork.
Using my brain.
Useless facts.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm can be pretty shy. That shyness does go away just like the fog once I start to get to know someone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books on art, fashion, history, society, music, gender identity, sexuality and whatever subject fascinates me. If you have any suggestions on something I should read let me know!

Love to try new food. I generally like it hot and spicy! Thai, Indian, Burmese and Mexican are amongst my personal favorites.

Musical tastes are a bit eclectic. I can go from listening to Indie bands to 70's Soul. From there i could put 40's Jazz and hop over to 80's punk. One thing for sure... I am well versed in music and bring a lot to the table musically.

My taste in movies seems to follow the lines of being eclectic as well. I can go from watching a documentary on something like Global warming to watching a goofy romance comedy. A great Sci-Fi flick always works as well.

It is really difficult expressing myself in such a way as I would prefer in this section. Part of me wants to list a bunch of movies, bands and books that I am passionate about but the other side that won out thinks it just might be too much for someone to have to read through. Plus I think it makes for good conversation another time.
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Social & Political Change.
Gender Issues.
The Future.
Global Travel.
New and Fun Adventures.
The Purpose of Life.
Much More.

I am a pretty active thinker.
On a typical Friday night I am
Keeping my options open. As long as it's fun and spent with people I enjoy being around then I am up for it. I'm a bit of a foodie so if it involves trying some new dive restaurant that serves great food that is a bonus. If my Friday night involves going to see a band, going to the movies, hanging out at a good bar, going out of town or simply staying at home watching Netflix I'm content.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It's probably already being addressed in my self summary.
You should message me if
you are awesome and you know we would click on a friendship or romantic level. So make it happen!