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My self-summary
I've come to identify as a neo bohemian and confirmed hedonist as well as a relationship anarchist. I'm an outgoing introvert with a tendency towards constant reinvention that is perhaps just personal evolution. INTP/J. I live according to my own conscience, on my own terms and make my own rules. I don't proscribe to any particular spiritual paradigm, but borrow bits from several. I don't deal in absolutes and am repulsed by dogma. I am becoming increasingly politcal. I'm a Jane of many trades and Mistress of none. My idea of lingerie is a tank top and boy shorts, but my favorite perfume is Dior. I'm an odd duck. Quack, quack. :)
What I’m doing with my life
- To pay the rent I moonlight as a personal chef, give occasional cooking lessons, clean houses, sometimes bar tend large events, an working on a start-up thrifting/upcycling business with a friend and am opening a small multi-medium art space with 2 of my romantic partners... Basically I do everything I can to make the dollars I need to finance my awesome lifestyle.

- I live in a gallery/venue, live/work space in RiNo that caters primarily to the Burner crowd called The Fusion Factory. We have awesome afterhours parties and many other events. I highly recommend checking it out! I am hoping to organize regular yoga, hooping and belly dance classes at the space soon in addition to providing a general creative space for myself, friends, lovers and other associates. My creative tendencies lately have been off the charts and I'd love to find someone(s) to art with. In general I would like to find some activity partners for such things as gardening, yoga, hula/fire hooping, hikes, bike rides, camping, thrift shopping, costuming, SCA, festivals and random adventures. That said, my time is my most valuable and limited resource. You must be awesome to get some of it.

-I'd love to meet people who are interested in eating and/or growing good food, getting physical activity outside of a gym, love body-mod, are socially rebellious in some fashion, are creative in some tangible way and/or have a thrift shop habit equal to my own. I strive to surround myself with peeps who share common interests and are hopefully as open minded as I am.

-I'm *very* Bi-sexual, have been involved in open or poly relationships for the last decade or so and am very open to and accepting of all kinds of sexual and relationship styles and quirks/kinks. I have a primary that I've been with for 9 years. Monogamy for me is absolutely not an option. If poly is a no-go for you, please understand that friendship is all I'll have to offer. I am currently seeing a number of men regularly. My interest on this site is to meet some awesome ladies to date, add to my rockin collection of men and meet new friends. As a rule, I do not date or fuck couples. I'm a unicorn, but not looking to be a 3rd, sorry.

-I have an evolving set of philosophies that I live by day to day. Some of these are: Make lemonade. There's no such thing as a problem, merely opportunities for personal growth. Practice Gratitude. Fuck yes or no. Words have power, so choose them deliberately. Live with Intention. The Universe Provides... and the list goes on. If you share my vibe, you might consider messaging me. :)
I’m really good at
Networking. People and skills, definitely not computers!

Cooking up tasty noms on the fly with random ingredients.

Thrift-shopping. (Thrift shopping also involves garage sales, flea markets, estate sales, CL, FreeCycle, etc.)

I load a fantastic hookah bowl!

Growing plants. I have a wicked green thumb.
The first things people usually notice about me
I suppose that would vary from person to person, but I'd say my eyes (very blue), cleavage (plentiful and full), or maybe my often-changing hair styles.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Top 10 Books/Series
Conversations With God- Neale Walsch
The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy- Douglas Adams
The Omnivores Dilemma- Michael Pollan
The Portrait of Dorian Grey- Oscar Wilde
Post Secret- Frank Warren
The Fountainhead- Ayn Rand
Stranger in a Strange Land- Robert Heinlen
Diary of a Drug Fiend- A. Crowley
The Qutub- Andrew Chumbley
Anita Blake, Vampire Hunter series- Laurel K Hamilton

Movies: Top 10 Films
Tank Girl
Harold And Maude
Across the Universe
High Fidelity
What Dreams May Come
Waking Life
Hedwig and the Angry Inch


TV Shows: Top 10 Series
Lost Girl
The Spoils of Babylon
Adventure Time
Game of Thrones
Dr. Who (New)
Invader Zim
Red Dwarf
American Horror Story
Rick and Morty

Top 10 Anime (so far)
Rosario Vampire
Elfen Lied
Kyo Karo Mao
Azu Manga Daioh
Heaven's Lost Property
Fate Stay Night
Girl's Bravo
Hetalia: Axis Powers

Music: Top 10 Favorite Albums: (for now)
The Man Comes Around- Johnny Cash
The Age of the Understatement- The Last Shadow Puppets
She Wants Revenge- Self Titled
Royal Blood-Self Titled
Life in Cartoon Motion- Mika
Mezzanine- Massive Attack
Dead Inside- Nicole Blackman with the Golden Palominos
The Least Worst Thriteen- Type O Negative
Entroducing- DJ Shadow
Pretty Hate Machine- Nine Inch Nails

Food: So hard to choose... My favorite 10 things.
Shaved Ice
Grilled PB & J
Tacos (with cabbage and radishes!)
Hobo Toast
Everything bagel with cream cheese and veggies
Ramen (real ramen)
Buffalo Chicken Pita
Deviled Eggs

Board/Card Games:
Let's Kill
Cards Against Humanity
Ticket to Ride
Trivial Pursuit
Candy Land
The six things I could never do without
My spice rack.
A cuddle buddy.
Shaved Ice.
A decent thrift store.
A notebook & pen.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Lately... costumes. :) My friends have inspired me to level up on that front. I've also been feeling creative in an arts/crafts kind of way. Am usually trying to decide which events to go to and how to make more $$$ to finance my rock n' roll lifestyle. My life is pretty fucking rad. #WIN
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends on the town, but I'm partial to hookah bars, goth clubs and burner parties. If I'm feeling really decadent, I go to bed ungodly early with a book. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Naps (and sleeping in general) is easily in my top 3 favorite things to do. A box fan is necessary for sleep whether it is winter or summer.
My favorite place in the world to picnic is in a graveyard.
I have an irrational fear of all insects except for earthworms.
You should message me if
your life also needs a soundtrack, you want to get off the beaten path and try out something new or you want to be inspired.