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My self-summary
Communication is the most important thing. miscommunication leads to no win situations. The ability to relate is predicated on our ability to communicate. I value strong communication skills. Tone conveys so much information and context, which is why i prefer in person communication as much as possible. Plus i love to see smiley faces

I'm looking for love and friendship. I'd like to find a nice romantic partnership and friendships. I'm interested in making a few friends who share interest or on similar career paths. I'm also seeking a meaningful lasting loving relationship. I understand that takes patience. I'm looking to make friends and while looking for a mutual contention. So lets chat about what we have in common and enjoy our time together.

Relationships are all custom built. I'm looking for a quality of interaction and depth of meaningful interaction. I'm open to non-monogamous/polyamorus relationships and monogamous , but i want to start with one before expanding and exploring. In either type of relationship i seek a soulful connection to share our lives and bodies with. I want someone to cocreate with. Its about how we relate to one another.

I'd like to support each other by eating healthy, exercising, tai chi, yoga, green smoothies, eating out, educating ourselves, and holding space for one another. Also Spirituality is very important to me in a partnership to talk about the basic interactions that i see in our every day lives.

I'm open to exploring more with my bisexuality/pansexuality. I prefer more fem energy. I'm new to certain aspects of the lgbt culture an open to learning.

This whole site to to meet in person. I don't enjoy texting with i don't have a connection with. Building relationships happen in person. I'm looking to form meaningful connections.

Science and spirituality greatly help contextualize my experience. I love physics and Abraham hicks.

Life is a non zero sum game. meaning there is enough for everyone and everyone can get what they want. Our beliefs help shape our reality.

Like Bernie i believe greed and selfishness of small groups of people in combination with rhetoric that has the oppressed identify with the oppressors. We have to join together and communicate to enact proper solutions.

I'm gluten free, eat meat and mostly organic. I really love Groundbreaker brewing. Bonus points if you would like to go there for a first date.
What I’m doing with my life
I work on a lavender farm and am passionate about permaculture, organic farming, and ecological restoration.

I play soccer weekly.

I've got some anxieties that i'm healing. I've got them under control but sometimes I just need a moment and/or someone to hold space for me as things arise.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Uplifting reggae, classic rock, blues, funk, Celtic, folk and more

comedy, Science fiction and comic book shows

Abraham hicks,
Six things I could never do without
connection to source,
good food,
On a typical Friday night I am
If i don't have plans, i go to bed at 10ish and sleep in to give me enough energy for the weekend and the next week. I play soccer and generally relax on the weekends. I tend to like to date on the weekends.

I enjoy chill dates of making diner, conversation and watching a movie/tv. Not every date needs to be proving something, most of the time dates are just excuses to be together.
You should message me if
You would like to meet for a conversation. You don't mind that i'm a guy with some healing left to do. Kombucha, tea, coffee, beer, food are all great to facilitate us to get to know each other. Let's see if we cocreate a fun outing and connected conversation. Thanks for reading
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