59Vallejo, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a happy, some what outgoing, but definately love quietness and time to myself. People think I am an outgoing extrovert because of what I do. But there is a quiet, introspective side of me, I wish more people knew. I am a warm and kind hearted man who is a true gentleman. My friends say I'm a loyal friend, am easy-going, and easy to get along with, a great conversationalist, deep thinker type. I love life, people and enjoy hearing interesting stories from people's lives.

I definately have a soft spot for others; In fact I work at a homeless shelter for men and love feeling like I genuinely making a difference!

Among other things, I am a Motivational Speaker who has endured and overcome many challenges in my life. There is almost no greater high I expeince than when I am connecting with an audience heart to heart, soul to soul offering different pespectives that may help and give hope for change, or at least make their day! I absolutely love what I do!!

Also, working on a couple of books I'm really exited about! Can't wait til they are finished and published. I've already self-published two books one of which was picked up by Solano Junior College a couple of years ago, and a workbook I've written to help people develop their own self esteem was picked up and used by a chain of men's recovery homes in Solano County.

My "Self Summary" can be bottom lined by simply saying; I love really connecting with others, and offering genuine help and hope, having fun, and meeting new friends.

I was married to a very abusive woman for 25 years! ! ! But, even through it all, I genuinely look forward to being happily married one day. Been divirced for 5 years, and am now starting to think seriously about meeting someone I would love to marry one day, but not in a real hurry right now! Wanted to get that out because I don't want to mislead any one. So, if you would love to spend some time with a genuinely nice, caring gentleman - and you are posdibly entertaining the idea of marriage one day - I just may be your man! Go ahead and give me a "click!"


Thank You
What I’m doing with my life
Raising my two teens. It is truly an honor and a privilage!!
I’m really good at
Listening to people's words - but hearing their heart . . . And communicating with others what and when I want!
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair, my smile and my perspective on life!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My Favorite Books:
'It's a Man Thing - Food for Thought, Growth and Change'
Portraits of a Poet, Stages of Life, Love & Legacy
Answers That Heal, Asking the Right Questions
'An Invitation To Succeed - don't just dream about a better day, do something abou it!'

My Favorite Music:
Contemporary & Smooth Jazz
Latin Music
Old School Funk / Dance / Soul Music

Favorite Food:
Thai Food
Authenitc Mexican Food
Good Old Fashioned (Home-Cooked) Soul Food
Six things I could never do without
My Children
Helping Others
Speaking To Audiences and Makng a Difference
Spending Time with YOU!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm too embarassed to say (ask me when we talk and I'll tell you!!)
On a typical Friday night I am
Thinking how nice it could be if we were together!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You have to date me to find out!!
You should message me if
I'm the kind of guy you are looking for as friend or MAYBE more. . .
You would like to spend a nice quiet evening at dinner with a real gentleman. . .
You are NOT on Cupid shopping for a husband RIGHT NOW, but MAY be open to marriage at some point in the future. . .
You have everything you need for a nice evening out, except a date! Call me. . .
You just need someone to talk to, I can be very good company, because I'm a very good listener and a great conversationalist. . . .
You are a very sincere person and you just really need a good "Guy Friend".
The two of us