50 Holly Ridge, United States
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My self-summary
no offence to Holly Ridge, but I live at Topsail Beach.

Still a work in progress, but here goes...


Wine to Beer (Red to White)
Bourbon (Crown)
Honor to Riches
Chess to Checkers
Books to TV (lost the Library with the house, but kept the books)
Plays to Movies (Comedies & Musicals to Dramas and Tragedies)
Pinochle to Spades
Stud to Hold um
Surfing 6 ft. Glass to Sex (Making Love - my partner would understand, we are talking about 6 ft. Glass)

NOTE: The above is part of and old profile and is a phizzog of yesteryear... I am truly looking for a best friend and lover. Again I will be updating and changing this with time. OK no bathroom pics, but I got "trutoself16" beat and I'm 10 years older! LOL - sorry, just have to gig someone who uses a bathroom pic as main profile pic.

First and foremost I am a Father. I have been a husband, traveler, business owner, migrant farmer (in New Zealand), Lover, Loser, Punk Rocker so on and so forth, Hell I'm almost 50. I've had a varied life so far... Rich, Poor and now rebuilding. I do smoke, but plan to quit. I Surf and love the Ocean and all She has to offer. I am a Vol. Fireman and I love it! I am looking for My Match. An intellectual equal who will be my best friend. Oh, recently baptized - so I don't really know how to date as a Christian... Maybe you can teach me.
What I’m doing with my life
Reassessment. I ran my own business for 18 years, now I'm selling Real Estate and working on a development in Smithfield. If the development goes well, I might retire or move on to bigger and better - It's a tough business right now, a but really fun learning experience.
I’m really good at
Keeping Calm. Negotiation. Seeing the Forest through the Trees. Thinking outside the Box. DJ Trivia.... Being Charming.... We joke about it - for work, I'm Jeffrey Freeking Charming.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
OK. I can be a voracious reader. It comes and goes, but I can have 5 books going at one time. I like History for non-fiction and a plethora of novels and short stories for light reading. Tolkien is still my favorite Author.

Movies: Saving Private Ryan, Black Hawk Down, Casablanca, Master and Commander on the Far Side of the World, Three Days of the Condor, Jaws, Tin Cup, Rudy, The Three Musketeers (the one with Chuck Heston as Richelieu), Breakfast at Tiffany's, A Knight's Tale...

Shows: Rocky Horror, Jesus Christ Superstar, Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dream-coat

Music: Eclectic, but right now I'm into old punk!

Food: Seafood, Grass-fed grain finished Beef... and any thing I can prep in twenty min.
The six things I could never do without
My Daughter - She is 13... God help me!!
Living on an Island - I've done the Mainland thing and it didn't take. I need to see the water every morning to know all is right with the world.
One working Surfboard - I have way tooo many, but I always need at least one in good repair.
Rainbows - everyone needs a good pair!
Music - I've just discovered Pandora! I have a radio station that I would have loved to have in High School.
Faith - After committing almost every mortal sin
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Trying to figure out how to transfer pics from my phone to my computer... And what is a good angle for a selfie??? And how much knee replacement will progress in 10 years! About crossing the Rubicon... It used to be politics, but with the current state of affairs... I figured out we are pretty much screwed. I used to give the Republic another 75 years. Now I say 20 - if we are lucky. So I have to get the sailboat ready!!!
You should message me if
I took a quiz on Facebook and it said my soulmate was named Elizabeth Wood. So if your out there....