34Virginia Beach, United States
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My self-summary
Alright, time to wipe out the old profile and update it a bit.

For anyone interested in getting to know more about me, I encourage you to go through my questions and read the answers I've commented on.

Quick summary of myself. I grew up moderately conservative, and was sucked into fundamentalist Republican stuff for most of my 20s. Upon researching and figuring things out for myself however, I'm mostly liberal now except on a few points. I'm putting this right up top because I ask you to please go away if you have any racist tendencies or desire to destroy the planet.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a full-time software/web application developer for an international media organization. I enjoy what I do and work long hours, focusing mainly on a website for a children's television program.

I've also started branching out and using my skills and ideas to start a business of my own, so that I can achieve financial independence.
I’m really good at
Find out!
The first things people usually notice about me
I've always been a bit introverted I suppose. My most recent personality test shows I'm actually slightly on the extroverted side. It's just rare that I can find people who I can really connect with. I work hard to avoid people who are too closed-minded, hateful, or unintelligent, which of course makes me seem a bit rude as well. I know that sounds hypocritical, but if you have to hate someone, I think it's better to hate people for the actions they take than for things like skin color or sexuality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TV Shows - Doctor Who, Lost, Family Guy, Futurama, Burn Notice, Full Metal Alchemist

Movies = The Truman Show, Gattaca,The Neverending Story, Star Wars, 50 First Dates, Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter... pretty much anything sci-fi or fantasy. I also like dramas.

Music - I can't get through my day without some Lady Gaga, P!NK, Shakira, Rhianna, or Sara Bareilles
Six things I could never do without
Need to rethink this one a bit. Will fill it in later, because my previous answers were boring AF.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Goals, making my dreams reality, helping people, making the world a better place.

It sounds cliche, but if I could get out of my life right now and do it all over, I'd just want to be an EMT or firefighter. Financial success is empty.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working on my side business.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I joined this site in August 2005.
In that time, I've sent 340 original, personalized messages (I don't do the copy & paste thing) and received about 50 replies, and been on 3 dates with 2 different people from this site, resulting in 0 lasting connections.
Not sure what I'm doing wrong here.
You should message me if
You're classy, intelligent, open-minded, and interested in a serious relationship, or a friends-first relationship. Don't bother if you're just looking for a casual fling.
The two of us