35Kennesaw, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a big, nerdy, cuddly teddy-bear! Love to work with my hands; to relax, I enjoy reading, playing video games, board games, and card games, socializing with friends, and working with wood, leather, or metal.

I've been in an open relationship with my wife for going on 3 years now. Being bisexual, I'm interested in all genders when it comes to potential partners. Ideally, I'd like to meet someone who would enjoy going on dates and spending time with one another. Not really looking for one-time flings or hook-ups.
What I’m doing with my life
Working for a great software company during the week, and spending time with friends and family on the weekend. When I have the free time, I enjoy channeling my creative energies. Some days I write, other days I design graphics or spend time in my woodworking shop.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
Either my beard or my smile - they're in roughly the same place, and both look fantastic!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Neal Stephenson, William Gibson, George R.R. Martin, Tolkien, Peter F. Hamilton, J.K. Rowling, Neil Gaiman, Carl Sagan

Movies: Chinatown, Star Wars IV - VII, most Star Trek films, Interstellar, The Martian, The Great Gatsby, Citizen Kane, The Big Sleep, Metropolis, and every Ghibli film I've ever seen

Shows: House Hunters, Fixer Upper, Bob's Burgers, The Amazing World of Gumball, Steven Universe, Adventure Time, Bojack Horseman, RuPaul's Drag Race, Project Runway

Music: The Decemberists, Lana Del Rey, Florence + The Machine, Poe, Foo Fighters, Counting Crows, lots of video game soundtracks, including Destiny, Journey (my current obsession) and the Bioshock series

Food: Mexican (thanks to my childhood in Los Angeles) and Italian (thanks to my mom's side of the family)
Six things I could never do without
...my brain
...the Internet, aka the part of my brain outside my skull
...my smart phone (the thing that interfaces #1 with #2)
...the Scientific Method
...my glasses, both stylish and quite necessary
...reasonably-sized groups of people enjoying one another's company
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...life, the universe, and everything
...space exploration and astrophysics
...the future of humanity, both on Earth and beyond
...politics (unashamedly super ultra mega tree-hugging liberal)
...society and culture
...the origins of the things we take for granted
...the environment, and how to preserve it
...inequality in the world, and how to improve it
On a typical Friday night I am
Participating in a Magic: The Gathering draft, hanging out with friends, or at home enjoying a quiet night with my wife, two dogs, two turtles, and a video game.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
...I'm on FetLife
...I want to get more involved with the local BDSM scene
...I have a surprisingly lucrative side job writing smut
You should message me if
...your idea of a perfect date includes stimulating conversation
...you love spending an afternoon treasure hunting at antique shops, thrift stores, garage sales, or flea markets
...you enjoy laughing, creating beautiful things, or exploring the wonders of the world
...you are into BDSM and are looking for a play-partner
...you have a good tattoo studio to recommend
...you'd like to learn more about me over a good cup of coffee
...you'd like to teach me crafting techniques
...you want to share the things you've drawn, written, photographed, or crafted
The two of us