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My self-summary
Really going to have to sit down and do a genuine appraisal then write at length. User tag was a mistake. I'm probably not what the majority of you have benwaitin4!

My personality traits says here: i'm Kinkier than most, more independent and Less old fashioned. Make of it what you will.

London born and bred, but spent 5 years on the East Sussex coast in a little village near Rye. So i appreciate bird song, cow pats, wellies, the four seasons and barn dancing! Invaluable for courtship in a metropolis!

I'm excited by what London has to offer and think its best explored by bike.
Battersea park, Greenwich park, Shoreditch, The Southbank, Regents canal. I love CHELSEA! Im an avid Chelsea supporter so days spent at Stamford bridge always memorable win or lose.
I Love discovering new places and can be a bit of an anorak when it comes to the History in London. I've started studying to get my Black Taxi badge. Im already good with rat runs and finding hidden gems in London's backstreets. I love london especially in the sunshine. Fav spot the V&A courtyard in the shade on a hot day people watching
I get to visit the coast quite often as my son lives in Whitstable. Trips to Camber sands and Rye in east Sussex always bring back happy childhood memories.

Music is very important in my life and i try and listen to everything including some Guilty pleasures. A morning Playlist may start with Mozart to warm the bones, ride out to the storm with the Doors, kick out the Jams with MC5, get sexed up with Prince. Reflect with Marvin and ask "what's Going on?" As the Danny Tenaglia says 'music is the answer' and not just background music on Heart FM. Open to most other Arts as well especially Theatre.

Not that Bookish, but i'd love to meet someone who is an avid reader. I can then borrow their books or Kindle instead of buying books i half finish.

On the whole pretty happy with myself though not the perfect finished article, but who is? I'm still young at heart and open to new experiences and making the odd mistake along the way.

I'd like to meet someone extraordinary (open minded and sexually liberated) who i can share experiences with and the odd mishap with life's dramas, laugh and maybe love along the way.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in an Emergency Service and i like sliding down poles, there's the clue. No i have never rescued a cat from a tree.

Trying to keep myself active. I have a few hobbies. I have pics of Tennis, Golf and indoor climbing, but Still i feel inadequate without ski pics! I love the gym (weights, TRX & Kettlebells, Bodypump) I feel young and I'm determined to keep it that way. I must be doing something right cos people keep saying "when will I grow up?"
I love travel and other Cultures, Favourites Spain, Cuba and Israel
Alas i haven't gone to as many far flung places as you lovely people with a lonely planet guide permantely in your back pocket! I plan to rectify that one day. Top 3 on my list Brazil, Thailand and NZ. Quite familiar with the UK and have visited most the major cities. Britain is such a beautiful island from the Highlands down to the lakes onto the Dorset coast and my favourite places being East Sussex country side and coast.
I’m really good at
Daydreaming when i should be paying attention.
Break dancing (well one signature move).
Parallel parking.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes or eyelashes if real close.
If i've been drinking who knows? Hopefully my slick dance moves and not me stuck to the spot trying to moonwalk.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
100 years of Solitude, Picture of Dorian Gray, Lolita. Bukowski
Film: Big Blue, Heat, Blade Runner, Mullholland Drive, Donnie Darko, Being John Malkovich, American Psycho, Bad Santa, Ed Wood. Old Boy. Any Coen Brothers. Searching for Sugar man, 24hr Party people.
TV In the Thick of It, The Daily Show with Jon Stewart, curb your enthusiasm, Peep show, Wonders of the Universe, True Detective, Boardwalk Empire, The Wire. Great British train journeys.
Music: Jeff Buckley, QOTSA, Smashing Pumpkins, Beck, Beastie Boys, Tribe called Quest, Jurassic 5, Frank Ocean, The Roots, Mos Def, Black Keys, Rufus wainwright, Cat power, Pj Harvey, First aid kit, John Mayer, Little Dragon, SBTRKT , Radiohead, Primal Scream, Lykke Li, Beach house, Rodriguez, Manu Chao, Seu Jorge. Film soundtracks.
Classical. Mozart, Debussy, Handel, John Williams Spainish Guitar.

Food: I love Vietnamese , Lebanese and Sushi. Garlic and Chilli essential for good food.
Six things I could never do without
Iphone Apps, New playlists, passport, car boot space, folding bike. Chelsea FC, Women's Tennis on TV in winter months ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Improving my Golf swing, recycling (what does check local recycling mean?) make it bloody simple!
Things I should be doing right now but putting off, because I feel like making a new playlist, drinking another coffee or googling some random detail.
How come i haven't heard of that band you like? I'm cool down with the yoof. I follow Giles Peterson, watch Later with Jools and listen to 6 Music!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Ideally watching a band, drinks with Friends or with my son having a catch up. I work different shifts so Friday isn't as significant to me. I could finish a night shift that day and simply have a tv catch up and takeaway.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I could tell you, but I'd have to kill you afterwards.
You should message me if
If your intelligent, attractive, witty and physically active, love to dance and are a Great Kisser!
Pretty Open minded and sexually liberated. I don't want to shock you on the third date after a few drinks loosen my tongue. I whisper in your ear that i want to take you home now and in quite colourful language explain what i'd like to do to you. Obviously i'd have established we were mutually attracted.

I read this in someone else's profile but it kind of summed me up: An extroverted, shy, exhibitionist. Prone to wild confidences, but with more closet-skeletons than a ghost train. I love intense sensations. My favourite emotional combination would be 'scared and excited' If something provokes an adrenaline rush i've probably tried it. If your still reading then were on the same page maybe?

Importantly you need some sort of political view point. Politics aren't boring and if your more likely to vote for X-factor than local elections then we most likely wont have much to chat about. I love a politically fuelled rant.
The two of us