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My self-summary
"Love more and be awesome." ~ Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert

*FYI - By "I" I actually mean WE. Yes, my partner and I seek females and couples for friends and possibly more together. Not to worry, she is incredible. You'll have no choice but to love her.

We prefer "free-range" meeting so we are more likely to tell you where we hang than to try and set up an awkward meeting. We have lots of fun and you will too, no matter where it leads.

ALSO: We are not seeking a "threesome" or some other contrived sexual fantasy. We seek organic connections with folks who believe every individual has equal standing. No relationship or person has more importance than another. We have no heirarchy in our world....

SEGUE: The rest of this section and profile is about ME, WickedProfessor. It's important to distinguish this so you realize that the rest of this profile has been here awhile and is almost biographical (or even Facebook like) in some ways. I have made many friends here on OKC and often communicate with them around the world with OKC. Often, I will be the one you talk with the first time BUT all communications will be immediately shared with my partner as soon as possible. We are in this together. My partner has mixed feelings about online dating and I can't blame her. I believe it is harder to be a female dating online than a male. She may add more here or her own profile in the future but, for now, we hope this will suffice...

Welcome to my nifty little attempt to define who I am so you can apply your filter and see if I flow through. I am here for friendship. I do not wish to confine myself or anyone else to a predetermined outcome or set of rules. My only rules are the ones that I tell my kids: be nice, be respectful, be thoughtful, and be happy. Most importantly, "Don't be a dick!"

I find it funny that we come on here telling others we are looking for this or that and MUST have that and this. I will not paint myself into that corner. I like meeting new people that are looking to experience life, both what they choose to do along with what happens along the way.

I will only consider folks that are stable and comfortable with who they are! I am very connected to my inner core and bare it for the world. I also desire to meet people focused on personal responsibility and empowerment in their relationships. I am straightforward, earnest, and FUN! I am a student of EVERYTHING I do. The more I like something, the better I am at it.

I am constantly working on living better, eating better, being in better shape. I have a devout yoga practice and workout almost daily. Fitness has become a central part of my life.

I strive to find the good all around us. It's really tough to watch the news and the horrible picture it paints of our world. When I ignore it and just live out my day, its amazing to witness the awesome humanity that surrounds us!

I'm looking for folks that strive for the same things all while focusing on having fun with it. I also love growing with the people in my life and helping along the path(s) when necessary. I have a very dear tribe of friends and I am extremely grateful for them. Love is very powerful in my life!

I can be exceptionally Dominant (but not extremely Sadist), always GGG, kinky, very unconventional, a non-monogamous relationship anarchist, passionately cutting edge and INTENSE, inspired, sociable, kind, and caring. I revel in finding/revealing/connecting to a woman's inner goddess.
What I’m doing with my life


I’m really good at
Smiling, intimacy (both emotional and physical), advocating for both myself and others, thinking, learning, and learning from teaching.
The first things people usually notice about me
I strive for people to notice my passionate dedication to growing and loving.

I believe that is what people see first.

For the record: Despite what OKC says, NO ONE who knows me would say that I'm less playful or less good natured. I'm very much both, and in droves!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
QUICK HITS: More than Two, The Gamechanger, The Walking Dead, Homeland, Sex at Dawn, Sex 3.0, Bladerunner, American Beauty, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Harold and Maude, Six Feet Under, Dexter, Carnivale, but also Where the Wild Things Are, anything Star Trek or Star Wars, Wall-E and E. T. The Onion is the finest example of modern journalism that I know of. Malcolm Gladwell is always intriguing. Tom Robbins is a passion. From Mahler to Jane's Addiction and beyond is my musical scene, very diverse. Nine Inch Nails, Stellastarr, She Wants Revenge

My favorite color is blue, I like weird flowers and daisies ... aw shit... this is such trivial stuff... I'm varied, eclectic, open-minded.

FOOD? Oh yeah, I like it!
Six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm always trying to get better as a person: emotionally, spirtually, sensually, and so on. I am also dedicated to learning and sharing with/through others.
On a typical Friday night I am
Mostly playing with my kids. Want to grab a drink/see a band later?
You should message me if
You are willing to commit to being friends no matter what. I do not believe in throwaway people. You must not either! I MEAN THIS... I only wish to meet people who are looking for friendship that will last.

You are dedicated to taking care of yourself in all possible ways... Mind, body, and spirit!
The two of us