44Oakland, United States
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My self-summary
I am good in bed. I mean, I sleep mostly still through the night with little to no snoring. That's good, right? haha. I consider myself a good soul. Looking for a partner in crime... fighting. Can we be friends? Seriously. Best friends with benefits. Forever. Exclusive. It shouldn't be that effin' hard, but somehow it is. (I was told this statement is ambiguous. To clarify, I want a long term committed relationship with the possibility of a family.) No rush.

I think I'm a fairly easy-going blend of humor and intellect. I laugh at my own jokes and appreciate the irony in that. I'm a bit of a smart ass; a cynic with a positive outlook on life. I reflect and continue to grow.

Lived in a few different spots including Hawaii and intend to divide time btw here & there eventually.

I do enjoy the outdoors when weather permits, dining, movies and music of all sorts. My interests vary greatly, and I seek a similar trait in my partner. We can share common interests yet do our own things too. You know, a healthy relationship.

Open minded and willing to try and learn new things. Recent goal has been a new passport stamp each year. Let's see if we have something to talk about and go from there...

Best of luck in your search! 
What I’m doing with my life
Living life to the best of my ability with consciousness on both big/small levels and in daily/eternal scales, which I guess loosely translates to something like: I see a spark of the glorious and hilarity amidst a mundane daily routine. While I'm working towards a goal in commercial real estate, I sometimes ponder whether my time would be better spent lounging/meditating on a beach somewhere far away.

Outrigger canoe racing is a hobby which occupies a few days a week mostly in spring/summer.
I’m really good at
I am pretty good at leaving the toilet seat down. That should get me points in some social circles.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have been told my eyes...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Not sure that I'd say I am a foodie, will eat anything from burritos to sushi, although mostly vegetarian (pescatarian). Like organic and local, but in true bachelor style won't shy away from a frozen pizza.

Paulo Coelho - The Alchemist
David James Duncan - The River Why?
Brendon Burchard - Motivation Manifesto
Trina Paulus - Hope for the Flowers
Kahlil Gibran - The Prophet
Edward Abbey - Desert Solitaire
Richard Bach - Jonathan Livingston Seagull

Music, music, music. If it's good, I love it. If it sucks, I am not a fan. ABBA to ZZ Top.

Movies, yep. I'm kind of a sucker for romantic comedies. I can't help myself. Like action too, so throw in a little kung fu. Braveheart, Big Fish, Contact, Disney, Dragon, Elf, Foreign, Pixar, Princess Bride, Coen Bros., Judd Apatow too many to really list.
Six things I could never do without
A Calculator to help me add to 6
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Nothing & Everything simultaneously.
I get lost in thought sometimes a daydream, other times about our interconnected universe and purpose in life.

Okay, while I don't spend much time on this thought, the question does cross my mind... Why do some people insist on including photos of themselves with their hotter friends? And, not is it inappropriate to ask about the person to the left in the third photo, but what degree of inappropriate? I've also actually seen friends on this site whose photos were posted unbeknownst to them. People, it's called privacy and etiquette. Geez. Haha.
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending a quiet night at home.
Drinking a beer at a pub. Seeing a live show or movie. Doing laundry. I don't need to go out every weekend; relaxing in my space is okay with me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Once had an okc date stand me up; only to show up 2 hours later with a different date. There's much more to this epic story. Wanna share over a drink?

Poor grammar is a turn off. Reading some profiles is a case study for my loss of faith in humanity and the US education system.

My profile name is an ill attempted bastardization of my last name, which I am unwilling to 'upgrade' my okc account to change.

I'm not always politically correct, but I'm always real.

I am totally worth the risk...and despite fearing heartbreak and rejection, I am here with open heart and open mind.
You should message me if
...you feel compelled. I'd like to meet the woman who will be the reason I close my okc profile...
The two of us