I am a home-body, but I welcome the chance to let someone new into my life. I'd prefer to get to know each other by talking, rather than relying on this site's questions. Feel free to ask me anything you like. I'm not easily offended.
I love children... I feel like this doesn't get said enough. Ultimately I am perfectly fine if you already have children or eventually want children.
Then comes the rest. The stigma of intimacy. I love it... all of it. This doesn't mean that I am some douche manipulating you for one ultimate goal, wherein lies the problem, I don't want to express interest in sex or the like and suddenly get the stink eye for it. I just want it known that I crave physical contact. It can be just cuddling if that is what is preferred. Questions geared towards sex (which I personally reserve until after establishing mutual sexual interest) are so that if matters get that far that I am not crossing lines. Boundaries exist... even at that point. It is my wish to not break your boundaries. If we date and if we get that far and you feel uncomfortable then let me know. I would prefer that.
If I message you first, or if I seem particularly interested in what you have to say, I find you attractive. Appearances are nice, but that's not all there is. That needn't be a major part of our conversation.
Lastly, I sleep in the nude mostly. Don't judge. That is not an invitation but a simple statement. It is just as much a warning as it is a reflection of who I am.
I recently had my hair cut, lost a smidge of weight, and now I have glasses. There will be pictures to update soon.
I spend a lot of time contemplating the concept of "the one" and all that it reflects. I am not looking for a mythical "one" girl. Statistically finding the single best candidate is nearly impossible. Someone who fits every one of my proclivities and I hers in return... I have a statistically better chance of winning the lottery. So two people finding the same in another is doubly unlikely. I am simply looking for someone who finds my merits outweigh my flaws and will love me. Don't disclude me because we're only a 60% match. We might have more in common than you think.
Movies: Interview with the Vampire, Yes Man, Dark Portals- Chronicles of Vidocq, Ink. But to be fair I am a fan of B movies and just about any movie genre.
Shows: Dead Like Me, True Blood, Big Bang Theory, Supernatural, Doctor Who, Torchwood, Buffy, Angel, Burn Notice. I watch reality shows with my dad on occasion too.
Music: I like a bit of everything really.
Food: I will try just about anything once, but I really like Greek, Italian, Chinese, and Indian the most.
My top row of teeth are fake. my diabetes along with other problems aided in destroying my teeth. I don't care to elaborate more. If you would judge me on this or cannot get past it then you are not for me.
I reserve every other private matters for whoever I date.
One caveat that I feel I must place... please make sure any messages towards me contain more than "hi, how are you" or any variant. I feel that there should be no double standard here. Such a wasted beginning shows me a lack of effort. I.E: Tell me something about you I won't find on your profile, or ask me a question you might want to see my stance on.
Lastly, I have anxiety that normally makes it very difficult to make the first move/message. If you are interested in me, the feeling may be mutual. I will respond to anything that took longer than a few seconds to write.
If there is something you want to talk about, no matter how strange it may seem, I would prefer you start with that. Sometimes it is the strangest things we have within us that can make or break a relationship.