31 Bloomington, United States
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My self-summary
First and foremost, I'm a geek and proud of it. I love role-playing games, and I'm always reading up on something. I think analytically, and I welcome having my conclusions challenged. I like to laugh.

I am a home-body, but I welcome the chance to let someone new into my life. I'd prefer to get to know each other by talking, rather than relying on this site's questions. Feel free to ask me anything you like. I'm not easily offended.

I love children... I feel like this doesn't get said enough. Ultimately I am perfectly fine if you already have children or eventually want children.

Then comes the rest. The stigma of intimacy. I love it... all of it. This doesn't mean that I am some douche manipulating you for one ultimate goal, wherein lies the problem, I don't want to express interest in sex or the like and suddenly get the stink eye for it. I just want it known that I am not celibate. Questions geared towards that (which I reserve until after establishing mutual interest) are so that if matters get that far that I am not crossing lines. Boundaries exist... even at that point. It is my wish to not break them, especially at your most vulnerable.
What I’m doing with my life
Just got a promotion at the bank I work for and got moved up to full time. Also I am working on getting a book published.
I’m really good at
I am really good at crafting. I make jewelry, I blacksmith, carve, draw, paint and bead. There are a few other crafts that I do but it is probably shorter to list what I don't make.
The first things people usually notice about me
My physical stature, which is often said to be imposing when I am in a serious mood.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Romeo and Juliet, Sun Tzu's- The Art of War. I've also recently grown fond of several classic Victorian Horror novels. Frankenstein and the Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde for example.

Movies: Interview with the Vampire, Yes Man, Dark Portals- Chronicles of Vidocq, Ink. But to be fair I am a fan of B movies and just about any movie genre.

Shows: Dead Like Me, True Blood, Big Bang Theory, Supernatural, Doctor Who, Torchwood, Buffy, Angel, Burn Notice. I watch reality shows with my dad on occasion too.

Music: I like a bit of everything really.

Food: I will try just about anything once, but I really like Greek, Italian, Chinese, and Indian the most.
The six things I could never do without
Friends, Love, shelter, Food and Water, my hands, and my sense of worth.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything, in fact I find myself looking for ways to just set everything else aside and relax. This tends to be easiest when I am with someone who is close to my heart. The hopeless romantic that I can be sometimes...
On a typical Friday night I am
I spend it hanging out with friends or working on parts of my house... Sometimes both.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I once jumped over a fence and tore a pair of pleather pants. I wasn't wearing underwear at the time because I didn't have any that were clean when I went out. It was at a park for a medieval sort of thing, so the tunic I wore was long enough to keep others from noticing. I found it more comical than anything else.
You should message me if
If you are interested and aren't going to judge me based on being a gamer, then message me all you like. I will respond to nearly anything sent my way.

One caveat that I feel I must place... please make sure any messages towards me contain more than "hi, how are you" or any variant. I feel that there should be no double standard here. Such a wasted beginning shows me a lack of effort.