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My self-summary
I see things from a different perspective than most. Eccentric, independent, free-spirited, strong-willed, courageous, determined, tough-minded, and outspoken, I think for myself, do my own thing, and try to do the best I can with what life has handed me. I also have a quirky sense of humor and a fearless sense of adventure. I’m intelligent and have a good balance of book learning and country common sense. I question everything, and sometimes think and do things in a backwards but logically justifiable way. I'm an officially certified crazy, not the kind of crazy that will flip out and go off on you, but the kind of crazy that involves living life with fearlessness, humor, and enthusiasm and throwing social conventions out the window. I consider myself a Gnostic hippie-redneck-nerd, a hard-core socially deviant nonconformist and an intellectual rebel against the norms and expectations of society, a spiritual anarchist and a medicinal heretic. I'm a lot rougher, wilder, and more rugged than I look. It's called dissonance and it messes with people's minds.

I'm looking more than anything for eccentric and interesting like-minded friends, not friends with benefits, just friends, local or semi-local people to talk to and hang out with that I can relate to. I'm not completely asexual, but I'm what they call gray-area asexual / demisexual, so it's rare for me to be physically attracted to anyone, and if I like you, I'll most likely just be interested in friendship. I'm not very good at small-talk, so intellectual conversation would be nice. I won't rule out the possibility of a relationship, but it's not a high priority right now, so if it happens it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm doing the best I can with what life has handed me, both the good and the bad.
I’m really good at
Being the local crazy dog lady.
The first things people usually notice about me
I like to wear dresses. I've had people mistake me for Amish, Pentecostal, a Sunday school teacher, a kindergarten teacher, and who knows what else. I'm none of those things. I just like to be comfortable..... and mess with people's minds.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Oingo Boingo, Green Day, Bruce Springsteen, Morrissey, Pink Floyd, John Mellencamp, the Eagles, Blue Oyster Cult, Bon Jovi, the Refreshments, Steve Earle, Rush, Styx, Gretchen Wilson, the Who, Bad Company, Charlie Daniels, Creedence Clearwater Revival, Johnny Cash, Travis Tritt, Bob Seger, Tom Petty, Nightwish, Social Distortion, Barenaked Ladies, Roger Clyne, Willie Nelson, Shania Twain, Journey, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Sara Evans, Garth Brooks, the Talking Heads, David Bowie, and many others.

Movies: Forbidden Zone, The Nightmare Before Christmas, Edward Scissorhands, Big Fish, Spaceballs, etc. I like weird.

Books: I could go on with a long list of books I've read and enjoyed, but instead I'll just say that I like to read, mostly nonfiction though I do enjoy the occasional novel, and I'll read about any topic that interests me.

Food: I'm pretty much a backwoods gourmet home cook. I'll go out to eat sometimes, but I usually eat at home. I cook practically everything in cast iron. I like to incorporate wild and homegrown vegetables, wild mushrooms, and wild meat into my cooking when available, but since I'm usually just cooking for myself, I usually end up keeping it simple and just eating potatoes or sandwiches or something.
Six things I could never do without
Other than the obvious necessities like air, water, food, clothing, and shelter..... in no particular order......

Music - It's a passion.

Fire - Other than its obvious usefulness to human civilization, fire is special to me on a spiritual level.

A way to alter my consciousness occasionally - It's medicine and I enjoy it.

Nature - I'm pretty much a semi-feral human in a mountain holler in the wilderness.

Freedom - I don't like being told what to do or how to live.

My Bluetick Coonhound - She's more than just a hunting dog, she's my most loyal companion who will always be there for me when nobody else is and will never get judgemental on me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whatever interests me at the moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
That varies from week to week. I might go sing karaoke at the local bar, run around in the woods with dogs, or just stay home and relax.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Read through my match questions and you will find the answer......
You should message me if
You’ve actually read what I have to say on my profile and have something more intelligent to say than "hey sexy" and the like. Skimming over it and looking at the pictures doesn’t count.
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