I love creative people, waterfalls, cursing, the coast, dark lipstick, cosmic horror, and dirty chai... Always thinking, always moving, never without a project. Poly/Bi/Kinky. I'm kinda hard to catch on my best days, but actively seeking a girlfriend/Non-cis-het-male partner in crime.
The rain is my habitat. I am a muppety babybat goth kid, but growing into myself in a lot of ways. Headed back to school in the fall for comp sci. Meanwhile, working at a local non-profit and organizing conventions with my live-in partner.
Also, perpetually on OkC but never actually seeing anyone. I'd love to give it a shot.
somehow bombastic & soft at the same time
maturity "for my age" whatever that actually practically means
EAT a lot of sushi, thai, teriyaki, indian, mexican, and pub food (but I love to cook anyway)
READ a lot of young-adult-fiction and interesting nonfiction as well as college texts for college
WATCH things like youtube critics (That Guy With the Glasses, CinemaSnob, and Digibro being my current favorites), Avatar: The Last Airbender, ShiroBako, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Penny Dreadful, Trigun, Girls und Panzer, Sherlock, Marvel, Wer, Star Wars, Stranger Things, SAO.. the list grows slowly
LISTEN to podcasts, jazz, metal, darkwave, 80's goth, 90's pop and rock, and artists like: Jethro Tull, David Bowie, Hozier, Lianne la Havas, Fiona Apple, Eva Stone, Green Day, Amanda Palmer, Local genre artists (Nathaniel Johnstone Band, Good Company)
My most-played Pandora station is KMFDM, and the tuner in my car is set to 95.1 (NPR) 101.9 FM (KINK) or 97.1 (Charlie)
I am in a dark cabaret band where I sing harmony and lead vocals.
I enjoy science, psychology, people, food, sustainability concepts, music, science fiction, space, sex, locomotives, steampunk, horror, naturalism, leatherworking, artists that mean it, and being critical of the world around me while still functionally living in it. I'm not an expert on much; I'm still at a place in my life where I want to spend a lot of time listening and observing.
I don't have time for a ton of gaming even though I like it, I don't watch much (if any) TV - let alone binge watching, I like anime but have finished few, I'm not old enough to get into bars (so no, I can't go get a drink with you) and I don't smoke.
I am an Athiest, with pagan friends. I got my guts to sing and speak in a christian church, but I don't belong there anymore and am not interested in ever going back.
I am a convention addict and vendor, familiar with the festival crowd. I am a singer. I thoughtfully manage enthusaist events. I'm generally a submissive, but still new and exploring.
The universe doesn't owe you, or me, fuck-all-anything. I'm trying to learn that and be grateful for what I've got.
That said... I need a little softness in this world. A little adventure. I think we all do.
I don't do one-night-stands, I have a short attention span and a lot of other things on my plate. I'm not looking for couples, and I have a straight-white-thirty-something-boyfriend "primary".