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My self-summary
I'm an overbooked girl living in Portland and dedicating my time to school, work, my band, and the management of enthusiast cons and events with my partner in crime.

"I swing both ways ;)
violently, with a bat. Come get some, motherfuckers."

I love Portland and creative people, waterfalls and the coast, dark lipstick and dirty chai. Always thinking, always moving, never without a project. Poly/Bi/Kinky. I'm kinda hard to catch on my best days.

The rain is my habitat. I am a sunny babybat goth kid, hard to pin down to plans, enthusiastic and apathetic all somehow at the same time.
What I’m doing with my life
Working, drinking coffee, going to school, making music, watching people, participating in city life, reading books, critical thinking, festival and con life, art, more art, and learning.

Always on to the next milestone. I can never learn enough.
I’m really good at
Singing? falling asleep to movies at the end of the day?
The first things people usually notice about me
I've got a lot of shit going on for someone 19 and so very green to the world. yes, my collar means something.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I eat a lot of sushi, thai, teriyaki, indian, mexican, and pub food (but I love to cook anyway!), READ a lot of young-adult-fiction and interesting nonfiction as well as college texts for college, WATCH anything and everything, favorites including Avatar: The Last Airbender, ShiroBako, Penny Dreadful, Trigun, Girls und Panzer, Sherlock, anything scary, Marvel movies, Wer, Star Wars, Doctor Who, etc... and LISTEN to podcasts, jazz (yes.) metal, darkwave, 80's goth, 90's pop and rock, Bowie, Hozier, Fiona Apple, Eva Stone, Green Day, Amanda Palmer, Local genre artists (Nathaniel Johnstone Band, Good Company, Unwoman). My most-played Pandora station is KMFDM, and the tuner in my car is set to 95.1 (NPR) 101.9 FM (KINK) or 97.1 (Charlie) I am in a dark cabaret band and sing harmony and lead.
Six things I could never do without
Coffee, Notebooks, Mobility, Chai, Chocolate, objectives.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My various and ever-changing jobs, all my events, the way people interact, my household, what I need to be focusing on right now, how I'm going to spend the next month and how fascinating life is on the whole.

I enjoy science, psychology, people, food, sustainability concepts, music, science fiction, space, sex, locomotives, steampunk, horror, naturalism, leatherworking, artists that mean it, and being critical of the world around me while still functionally living in it. I'm not an expert on much; I'm still at a place in my life where I want to spend a lot of time listening and observing.

I don't have time for a ton of gaming even though I like it, I don't watch much (if any) TV - let alone binge watching, I like anime but have finished few, I'm not old enough to get into bars (so no, I can't go get a drink with you) and I don't smoke.

I am an Athiest, with pagan friends. I got my guts to sing and speak in a christian church, but I don't belong there anymore and am not interested in ever going back.

I am a convention addict and vendor, familiar with the festival crowd. I am a singer. I thoughtfully manage enthusaist events. I'm kinky as all hell, but starting the conversation with that won't get you attention and it's not all I'm ever interested in.

The universe doesn't owe you, or me, fuck-all-anything. I'm trying to learn that and be grateful for what I've got.

I need a little softness in this world. A little adventure. A little safe sanctuary.
On a typical Friday night I am
When I'm not working, I'm working.
You should message me if
...if you have few expectations, enjoy educated discussions, eat good food, want to share your music or favorite works of fiction, and don't mind that I barely check this thing or generally give two fucks... Or if you're a pretty sane, poly-friendly, kink-friendly, busy-person-friendly person between 20 and 30 and you think we might get along.
The two of us