"I swing both ways ;)
violently, with a bat. Come get some, motherfuckers."
I love Portland and creative people, waterfalls and the coast, dark lipstick and dirty chai. Always thinking, always moving, never without a project. Non-monogamous/Poly & Pansexual/Bisexual but focused on my partner right now (who is a man, and older than I) because we're a rad duo of project-people, I lack time and am picky.
The rain is my habitat. I am a sunny babybat goth kid, hard to pin down to plans, enthusiastic and apathetic all somehow at the same time. I can tolerate bullshit but have little room for it in my personal life.
Always on to the next milestone. I can never learn enough.
I enjoy science, psychology, people, food, sustainability concepts, music, science fiction, space, sex, locomotives, steampunk, horror, naturalism, leatherworking, artists that mean it, and being critical of the world around me while still functionally living in it. I'm not an expert on much; I'm still at a place in my life where I want to spend a lot of time listening and observing.
I don't have time for a ton of gaming even though I like it, I don't watch much (if any) TV - let alone binge watching, I like anime but have finished few, I'm not old enough to get into bars (so no, I can't go get a drink with you) and I don't smoke.
I am an Athiest, with pagan friends. I got my guts to sing and speak in a christian church, but I don't belong there anymore and am not interested in ever going back.
I am a convention addict and vendor, familiar with the festival crowd. I am a singer. I thoughtfully manage enthusaist events. I'm a kinky fucker, but starting the conversation with that won't get you attention and it's not all I'm ever interested in.
The universe doesn't owe you, or me, fuck-all-anything. I'm trying to learn that and be grateful for what I've got.
I need a little softness in this world. A little adventure. A little safe sanctuary.