28Portland, United States
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My self-summary
Nature-loving creative type with girl hips and big plans. Unabashedly geeky and curious about life. Strive for compassion but get hung up on my cynicism. Big time overthinker, but learning to let go and live in the Now.

Polyamorously practicing for the last 14 years--no particular school of it, I just prefer to let connections grow naturally.
What I’m doing with my life
Saving up for my first five acres. Writing, gardening, game-designing. I have about a thousand interests and I like to dip my toes in all sorts of rivers.
I’m really good at
Being enthusiastically distracted by all the wonderful things in life.
The first things people usually notice about me
goldish mane, big nose, powerful presence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Magical Realism

Music: Indie Folk

Food: Wild Stuff

Movies: Pretentious Foreign Junk

TV shows: Ones that show the beauty and joy in sad and ugly places

Tree: Western Red Cedar

Games: anything that involves meaningful player choice and exploration
Six things I could never do without
alone time
honest human touch
animal friends (wrens and coyotes &c)
street food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to realistically and fantastically portray the cultural and climatological history of an imaginary world.

How to be a writer/game designer/hunter/gatherer/restaurateur/forest ninja/carpenter/animal whisperer/mystic type/world traveler/future rad hippie parent/alternative economy commune establisher/person who sees every interesting show in Portland.

What the mountains think of my hair.
On a typical Friday night I am
If I'm lucky, in spirited conversation around a campfire in the deep woods. More likely reading or at an event. If you find me out on the town, I'm much more likely to be at a concert, comedy show, game night, or house party than at a bar. Loud crowded rooms don't float my goat, but I like being intellectually and culturally stimulated.
You should message me if
you are sometimes so overwhelmed by the beauty and enormity of life that you feel you might cry.

If you want to play Agricola with me.

Si a naani Pulaar e a faala wallude-kam ekkitaade.
The two of us