I have traveled extensively in the U.S. and have lived and worked in Asia and Oceania. I can eat with a formal dinner service, chopsticks or my fingers. I can dress for any occasion, but I really prefer denim.
I'm back in Vermont now and more or less settled for a few years – well, probably, I do start feeling footloose at times and miss the travel – I am a Sagittarian after all. I'd really like to be with someone who enjoys experiencing new cultures, lifestyles and perspectives. After spending four years in the tropics, Vermont winters are not my favorite, but the social/political atmosphere makes up for it - mostly. I enjoy reading – mostly scifi/fantasy and mysteries – and can't imagine what life would be like without good books. Since I got to write and direct a video I've been hooked and am doing more writing. I've always enjoyed swimming and learned to scuba dive as well as snorkel while in the tropics - one thing off my bucket list.
I'm a Brit. Trad. Witch and I take my religion seriously, though never somberly. While it would be nice to share my life with others of the same beliefs, it's not essential. I will respect your spiritual/religious ways (or lack thereof), and trust you to respect mine.
I think I must have been born polyamorous. Although I came from a traditional family in a traditional home in a traditional community, I never wanted that myself. My earliest fantasies always involved groups both as relationships and sexually. Unfortunately, I don't just stumble over poly people everywhere –or maybe I do and just don't know it. So here I am.
Movie: Alien - I don't generally care for the evil monster alien movies, but the Sigourney Weaver character was the first woman in a movie that I'd ever been able to identify with. In general I like science/speculative fiction and fantasy, who-dun-it mysteries (as opposed to let's shoot everyone in sight mysteries), action and comic book movie (Superman, Daredevil, Spiderman, etc.). I rarely like 'chick flicks' or slasher movies - though I love a good classic vampire/werewolf one.
Music: Symphonic/opera, folk (especially Celtic) alternative, rock, Celtic rock. Don't like most country, rap or baroque.
Food: Spicy and exotic
My connection to the gods
A good book
Well, I could survive without them, but what would be the point.
Honorable, intelligent and literate with a sense of perspective and of 'romance and adventure' is a necessity, as is bisexuality. Capable of being my equal in public, but submissive in private would be wonderful and desirous of a polyandrous relationship, even better. Tall, skinny or gangly and younger is good; long hair is fantastic. Know the difference between you're and your (and use them appropriately) and you have my heart. I'm far from perfect and don't expect perfection in partners. I consider forgiveness to be vital to any relationship along with respect, a sense of humor and good sex. I would hope to have overlapping, but not identical interests. I'd like to be able to learn from my partner(s) and they from me.
I'm not interested in long distance or cyber relationships, one night stands or occasional sexual encounters, or anyone married unless both/all spouses are interested. Friends with Benefits are great, but the friend part comes before the benefits.
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