42San Jose, United States
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My self-summary
Like a lot of people in Silicon Valley, I make software for a living, but you probably don't know anyone quite like me. For whatever reason, I gravitate toward positions of leadership. It's always been a part of me. As a result, I now run a 17-piece jazz band that I started in 2010. I play saxophone.

I've never been married, and I don't have kids. That wasn't really where I had planned to be at my age. It turns out that I had a lot to learn about people, relationships, and myself. I'm looking for someone for a serious connection.
What I’m doing with my life
My career is video games. I recently made a commitment to myself to get in shape. I never saw myself as athletic growing up, and I'm excited to see what I can achieve if I really try. And, of course, the music!
I’m really good at
In a relaxed situation, I will definitely make you laugh. I love harmony singing. I have an excellent memory.
The first things people usually notice about me
My height and my voice. When I'm lucky, my smile and my sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Food: Love it. Thai and Japanese are my favorites. I'm a huge fan of boba tea, ice cream, and frozen yogurt, but not of the term "froyo", which sounds like it might refer to a yoyo with an afro, I'm not sure. I don't like beer. I like liquor, and red wine.

Books: Love them too. I read mostly sci-fi/fantasy.

Movies: Comedy is the best, but I also love action, scifi, and anything good, really.

Music: eclectic... I am into singing acapella music. I like current bands like Ok Go and Muse, older bands like AC/DC, jazz like Charles Mingus, and I listen to the occasional opera

TV - Favorites change frequently:
Very funny: Real O'Neals
Very engaging dramas: Nurse Jackie
Scifi: Westworld

also, I HATE The Big Bang Theory. But I can still love you if you like it....but I'm not gonna watch it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I refuse to "Eject" my iPod before disconnecting it from iTunes.
You should message me if have a good sense of humor and you have some interests you are passionate about. I am most drawn to women who are upbeat and expressive. I am looking for someone who is a good balance of edgy playfulness, and still a really caring, quality person.

...if you would enjoy getting together with friends to play games, or going to see comedy or music.

...if you want to receive pictures of my cat
The two of us