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My self-summary
First off, I want to talk about my relationship. it's not most others, It is an open one, one where we can explore ourselves and the world while still having each other. I am looking for new friends and some possible "friends with benefits". If I'm to have sex with someone I want to know them, first. Even better, I'd like to find someone who'd like to date, or have sex, with both of us.
Now, a little about myself. I am an odd ball who says quirky things without a care of what other's will think. I enjoy gaming, whether it's a board game, video game, or card game. I think I'm a vampire because the sun makes me tired and I'd rather be inside, where it's dark.
What I’m doing with my life
I've recently opened up a kung fu school. Running my own business while also working another full-time job keeps me incredibly busy, but I balance it with time with friends and relaxing with a nice glass of scotch or Guinness.
I’m really good at
Martial arts (several styles), painting, drawing, conversation, debate, and many other things. Anything I do, I give my whole spirit to.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair. It's long and dark. After that, my eyes catch people's attention, and then it's my sense of humor. I love making folks laugh, so of course it's noticeable.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A) Anything by Heinlein, Way of the Peaceful Warrior by Dan Millman, The Hitchhiker's series by Douglas Adams, and the Dresden Files series by Jim Butcher. In no particular order.

B)The Ip Man films, The Matrix Trilogy (yes, even the third one), Kill Bill 1 & 2, Team America: World Police, almost any wuxia, Donnie Darko, Boondock Saints, the newest Batman films, and on and on. If it's thought-provoking, I love it.

C) I like complex music with a lot going on all at once. As a result I focus on electronica and classical a lot, or groups that blend a variety of styles like Mindless Self-Indulgence, Nightwish, Propellerheads, and a large variety of other examples. I like obscure indie or niche music but don't get elitist over it. I also collect the scores from movies.

D) I eat meat. If it was a moving creature at one point, I'll give it a try or already have and loved it.
The six things I could never do without
My mind, my chi, my heart, something less deep like RPGs, the nutritional essentials, and my girlfriend. She is my best friend and has helped me get through a lot of pain in my life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Fate, and/or the interaction of events to cause all the happenings of life. Causality is a fascinating study.
On a typical Friday night I am
I am either playing Magic the Gathering at my local comic book shop or relaxing at home so I'm ready for training with my sifu in Iowa. It's a long trip, and I work hard, but it's always worth it. I've learned a lot and I enjoy learning how to improve, not only myself, but all of my students as well.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
One thing I will admit is that I'm semi-retired from the BDSM scene. It's still a part of my lifestyle but not as much as it used to be.
You should message me if
I'm sick to death of wallflower girls who wait and wait for the world to accomodate them, instead of seizing the moment and making it their own. You're playing the light side of the chess board; make the first move.