42Dandenong, Australia
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My self-summary
The world inside my head is filled with contradiction. Upswings and downstrokes. Antisocial extrovert. Nurture and shock. Serious and humourous.
I can be shy and I worry about saying the wrong thing, or just not being able to say the right thing. I think I missed out on getting the unwritten script that most people use for social interaction.
Someone particular once told me that he found it amazing how accepting and non-judgmental I am of other people.
But some behaviours make me really mad. I am soft and yielding but if you push the wrong buttons you'll hit the diamond edge.
I see things in black and white....stripes, checks, paisley.
Today I'm spiky, tomorrow I'll be a kitten.
Today I'm at home, creating domestic bliss. An activity I enjoy more than I ever expected.
How can a person be so cut up about a relationship that lasted less than 6 months? So I'm here on OKC looking for a good reason to forget. But people aren't so good at not thinking about specific things, so maybe I'm looking for something else to think about.
I am, however, married. And intending to stay married. And I have 2 preschool children, so going out at night requires some forward planning.
What I’m doing with my life
Work, home. Repeat.
It is spring as I write this so some garden maintenance is occurring.

Update July 2012: what I'm doing with my life is having a baby. So I might be a bit sleep deprived.

Update June 2015: what I'm doing with my life is having a second baby. I'm definitely sleep deprived, short of time and somewhat stuck at home.
I’m really good at
The first things people usually notice about me
Most people notice my female shape first. Perhaps after they talk to me they might notice other things. This is pretty normal really.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Everything Pratchett. Fantasy / sci-fi. Non-fiction / science.
Movies: Zoolander, Fierce Creatures, Attenborough documentaries.
Music: 80's, Crowded House, JJJ
Food: I'll try most things once. I just love well prepared food of nearly any cuisine. Although salmon sashimi rates a special mention.
Six things I could never do without
Boring list involving the basics for survival. Atmosphere, water, shelter, etc.
And my sewing machine. I am so needful of it that when I need to take it for a service I borrow one from a friend because I can't bear to be without one for 3 weeks. And sewing is a hobby, not a job.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sex, love, dinner, religion, politics.
I'm constantly thinking up new projects to sew / make / do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sewing, designing; clothes, quilts, furniture.
Dancing around the house screeching into a wooden spoon.

Exhausted. Zoned out in front of the computer hoping the kids will stay in bed.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I hide in the bushes, lying in wait to ambush .... chocolate.
You should message me if
you have a personality. You are socially liberal. You think.

Note: I'm married, in an ethical polyamorous relationship. I am NOT looking for 'discreet fun times' or mindless fucking.
The two of us