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My self-summary
Middle-aged, redheaded, fiery, independent woman (part professional, part hippy) seeks a special guy for fun and adventuring.

The special guy I’m seeking will not be particularly religious and will be open to dating someone who is non-traditional. I am spiritual but not religious.

My special guy will allow me to be me and not try to control me. This will work both ways; I will not attempt to control him either. One of the best parts of being single is freedom, and I would like to retain a sense of this freedom in a relationship.

This special guy will be a good communicator. Too many problems in relationships are due to a lack of communication. I want a man who isn’t afraid to say, “Let’s talk.”

This special guy will be kind-hearted and have enough self-confidence not to want to hurt others. I try to keep my drama to politics and to working for positive changes. That’s enough drama for me.

This guy will have to be cute--to me. I don’t have a particular type but will know whether we have physical chemistry when meeting. Believe me, none of us are as good looking as we were back in the 80s. Life happens.

This special guy will be honest and have the tendency to be a one-woman man. A sense of wonder and adventure would be grand. Life is short; let’s have some fun.
What I’m doing with my life
Following my passions wherever they lead me. I spend a lot of time trying to make the world a better place.
I’m really good at
Seeing the positive side of life. I put 100% into whatever I do. My favorite time is when I'm doing something that I'm passionate about. I'm usually pretty good at whatever I set my mind to.
The first things people usually notice about me
People notice that I'm outgoing and like to laugh. I'm definitely an extrovert, and I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve. As time goes on, people see that I have strong character. I treat others the way I want to be treated. I am honest and loyal to a fault. With all this being said, my morals (and sense of humor) are somewhat warped. Laughs :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I started the new year out with four Richard Bach books. Soon I will be moving on to Tom Robbins.

Movies: My personal favorites are "The Creator," "Pay It Forward," "Nobody's Fool," and "Good Will Hunting." This is not to say that I don't enjoy other types of movies as well, such as action or comedies. Quentin Terrintino is a genius!

Television: "This is Us," "Shameless"

Music: Todd Snider, AC/DC, 70s
Six things I could never do without
1) Friends and family: My brother is my best friend and biggest fan. My son is my life.
2) A vehicle with music (to sing with): It sometimes amazes me how happy I can be just driving and singing:)
3) Love: Hey, it makes the world go around.
4) Creativity: Every second is a choice and a chance to create.
5) Fun: Oh yeah!!!
6) Passion with a mixture of laughter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
EVERYTHING!!! I am a thinking type!!! Sometimes I think about thinking. Today, I was pondering why women wear perfumes that smell like flowers, and why men wear cologne that smells masculine. Because... people don't smell what they are wearing. They smell what others are wearing. So, does that mean that men really like to smell flowers, and women really like the masculine smells? My eyebrow is raised ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
doing whatever. Sometimes, I go out, and sometimes I stay at home and hang with family and friends. As long as I'm having fun, it doesn't matter what a Friday night looks like.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That will come later ;)
You should message me if
You are an honest person with a zest for life. Players, criminals, and crazies... please pass me by. While I am not seeking perfection, I appreciate a good sense of humor and a quick smile. Let's dance:)
The two of us