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My self-summary
My name is Ather. Personality type: ISFP.

I enjoy spending time with my family, relaxing and playing table tennis in my free time. I am honest, straight forward, calm and a good listener. I dislike drama and confrontation and am a happy person who appreciates everything I have in life. :)

I am looking for a woman who is easy going, honest, and open minded to build a life with.

Some of my favorite quotes:

"A strong man is not he who wrestles well. But a strong man is he who controls himself when he is in a fit of rage." - Prophet Muhammad s.a.w.

"Kindness is a mark of faith. Whoever is not kind, has no faith" - Prophet Muhammad s.a.w.

"Verily, the real patience is at the first stroke of a calamity" - Prophet Muhammad s.a.w.

"Do not exaggerate in praising me like the Christians praised the son of Mary, for I am only a slave. So call Me Allah's slave and His Apostle!" - Prophet Muhammad s.a.w.

"When the power or Authority comes into the hands of unfit people, then wait for the hour (doomsday)" - Prophet Muhammad s.a.w.

"No amount of guilt can change the past and no amount of worry can change the future." - Umar ibn Al Khattaab

"O son of Adam! You are nothing but a number of days. With each day, a part of you is gone!" - ibn Taymiyyah

"Every successful person has a painful story and every painful story has a successful end. Learn to accept pain and prepare for ultimate success" - Mufti Ismail Menk.

"If God shuts a door, stop banging on it and believe that whatever is behind it, is not meant for you!"

"If you do 99 things correct and make 1 mistake, people will ignore the 99 and spread the one mistake!" - Imam Sha'fi.

"How strange and foolish is man! He loses his health in gaining wealth. Then to regain health he wastes his wealth. He ruins the present while worrying about the future, but weeps in future by recalling his past. He lives as though death shall never come to him. But He dies in a way as if he were never born!"

"Pleasing God is easier than pleasing the people" - Ather.
What I’m doing with my life
Working hard but not too hard. Being moderate is important. I am hoping to find someone special. :)
I’m really good at
Being helpful and getting along with people
Table Tennis aka Ping Pong
Unix Shell Scripting.. but isn't everyone good at that?
The first things people usually notice about me
I am told I have a nice smile. I think my beard is pretty noticeable too. haha
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like a variety of movies action/comedy/thriller as long as the story is meaningful and the acting is good. If it is a horror movie I don't mind holding hands :)

Well not to be too obvious but yes Indian food.. I like most anything that tastes good as long as it is halal.

I don't have much time to read for fun. I spend my time studying so that I can gain knowledge.
The six things I could never do without
1. My Faith, is always there to comfort me and guide me in the right direction.

2. Wallet, because that's just practical.

3. Cell phone, so I can check my Okc account.

4. Wrist Watch.

5. Bike, because bikes are fun.

6. Patience, Mercy, Kindness and Compassion.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why women have to write such big stories when it was supposed to be only a self-summary??
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching inspirational videos in YouTube.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Please wait while okc retrieves this data.....
You should message me if
Are easygoing and looking for new friends.

If you are looking for a serious long term relationship leading to marriage with someone who will respect you and treat you like a lady.

Enjoy my liberal use of emoticons :D or not :C

Or have an inspirational quote you would like to share. I'd appreciate that.