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My self-summary
Poly, open, honest. Loves listening to music and going to gigs (in small atmospheric venues preferably), talking about love, life and emotions. Sharing connections that make you think.
Sexy times, interesting times.
Growing organic vegetables and herbs. Having time for valued and loved ones.
Working when it has a point. I’m involved in Roma and refugee education. I hate working with people who are only motivated by power. Strong people are a joy to work with though.
Reading, movies, exhibitions, dancing ,organic food and cooking. Good tea, wine and making and enjoying home made elderflower cordial, tarragon syrup and more recently elderflower champagne (only one bottle exploded!), black locust (fehér akác) wine, various lacto fermented beverages and ginger beer
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to be me
I’m really good at
Walking. Dancing when drunk!
The first things people usually notice about me
Hungarians notice my poor pronunciation. Other things? You tell me if we meet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books – Sarah Waters, Camus, Angela Carter, Paul Auster, Ballard, Bulgakov, Foucault, The Ethical Slut.

Movies – Endless!

Tierra (Julio Medem), Incompresa, Scarlett Diva (Asia Argento), The Last Mistress (Catherine Breillat), 24 Party People, 9 Songs (Michael Winterbottom) The Royal Tenenbaums, Moonrise Kingdom etc (Wes Anderson), Andrei Rublev (Tarkovsky), Chungking Express (Wong Kar-Wai), No one Knows about Persian Cats (Bahman Ghobad), The Before Trilogy (Linklater) Moon (Duncan Jones), Vi är bäst ( Lukas Moodysson ),Die Ehe der Maria Braun etc (Fassbinder) A Girl Walks Home Alone at Night ( Ana Lily Amirpour)...........

Music – Even more endless!

Right now – Widowspeak, Cigarettes After Sex, Death and Vanilla
A bit of Jazz – Monk and Mingus
Roma music – Parno Graszt, Romano Drom etc
And then a few hundred others including Slowdive, Joy Division, Mohammad Reza Mortazavi, Beach House, Elliot Smith, The Velvet Underground, Pulp, PJ Harvey, Bartok, Lali Puna, Take it easy Hospital, Love Inks, Thurston Moore, La Femme, Junip, My Bloody Valentine, Xeno and Oaklander, and Dva

Food – I love cooking and creating in the kitchen. Vegetarian dishes with fresh ingredients from the market or my garden with interesting herbs and spices. Food shared with company, conversation and wine is the best way to serve it.
Six things I could never do without
love, loved ones, fresh air, food, freedom and honesty
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Work (try not to!), life, love, and is someone watering my plants when I’m out of town
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends in a bar, at a concert in a small venue, watching a film, cooking and drinking wine, having fun stimulating conversations with a friend or lover, having sexy times..... or drinking wine and skyping with someone too far away to do all of the above with.
You should message me if
You believe that honesty makes connections/relationships stronger.

You could be just curious, happy to talk and go for a drink or if not, just to exchange words in a virtual space and see where that goes.

Open to whatever a connection may bring, be it a stimulating conversation, flirting, laughs, or just a sharing of thoughts about life. I’m happy to explore any kind of connection that adds something to one’s life.
Although it doesn't happen very often for me........even falling in love.
The two of us