_Sapere_Aude_
26Neptune, United States
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My self-summary
The name's Nicole. I'm 26, kind of short, am way too much of a softy, and like to touch butts. I'm in an open relationship with a super nice guy which includes kink, and am interested in finding single women and couples down for swinging. Looking for full swap, but down for soft swap and same room too. I'm super interested in finding people looking for kinky play partners. I identify as a feminist, a kink adventurer (sadist/switch), and a nudist far too lazy to find a proper commune. Cuddling is necessary for life, and spiders are terrifying. Those are two very important things that you ought not forget.

I love to read. I enjoy gaming and intense debates. I dominate classrooms and dive into academia with ease. Painting keeps me sane. Cartoons are severe addictions. Food is delicious. Being silly is what makes life marvelous, and maximum ridiculosity is the best way to handle any situation. I'm very sexual. It's kind of the essence of my being, and the guiding light of my career ambitions. I pour all of myself and my energy into those I care about, I'm often trusting to the point of idiocy, and am terrible at looking both ways when crossing the street. I will talk about anything, anywhere, with anyone, and have a tendency to border on the obnoxious. But I must manage to be at least a little charming in the process, since people keep deciding they want to see my face again. Those poor souls.
What I’m doing with my life
I graduated from Ramapo College with a BA in Psych, a minor in Women's/Gender Studies, and a concentration in Business. I'm presently working as a Residential Counselor with adolescents and am working on an MEd in Human Sexuality. Ultimately, I'm looking to be a sexuality educator.
I’m really good at
School, gaming, artistic endeavors, sleeping, arguing, procrastinating, peopling, problem solving, sexing, cards, baking, cooking, creating, singing, dancing, pretending, writing, learning, networking. Also anxiety attacks. I'm especially good at those.
The first things people usually notice about me
~Tits - They're pretty fantastic.
~Intelligence - I'm generally pretty articulate, and love to debate
~Hair Color - I like really vibrant, unnatural looks
~Lack of makeup - I've only JUST figured out how to use eyeliner properly
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm really terrible at filling out sections like this, because my tastes in things are so broad. I find most of life enjoyable, and likely won't shit on the things you like.
Six things I could never do without
~Kink
~Friends
~Pets
~Affection
~Vibrators
~Cartoons
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The choices I make, the kind of people I choose to share my life with, whether I'm doing or saying the right things; I tend to ruminate over my past experiences a lot.
On a typical Friday night I am
Collapsing in bed with my cat or sobbing endlessly as I try to finish a paper. I lead a wild life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I struggle with anxiety and depression
You should message me if
You want to play casually with me and my partner. Full swap, soft swap, same room, or kink scenes are all things I'm down for.

For dating: please only reach out if you are sincerely interested in an open or poly situation.
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