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My self-summary
Lawyer, social-scientist-in-training, junior academic. Into travel, hiking, good beer, good books.

Ethically non-monogamous with a primary partner in California. When she's in town we date as a couple, but I'm usually going solo.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently doing a teaching fellowship at an Ivy League law school in Manhattan -- but I'm not telling which one :) I disliked being an actual lawyer so my plan is to create other lawyers.
I’m really good at
The first things people usually notice about me
Recent first date, I'm standing in front of the bar and see my date approach. Quick hug, then she steps back and looks at me with an almost sad look on her face.

HER: "Oh, your hair!"
ME: "What, is it out of place?"
HER: "You're losing it!"

My receding hairline is the worst physical ailment I've had to deal with thus far in life; I'd say that makes me pretty lucky.

ETA: I've since then given in to the inevitable and shaved my head entirely. So I guess that would be what people notice?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Most of my life has been defined by books in one way or other. I was the kid reading Greek mythology in the school library during lunch. I read a lot of popular science and wish I'd developed that interest early enough to pursue it. Hard to pick favorites but a few of the most life-changing, self-defining books I've read:

The Chronicles of Prydain, Lloyd Alexander
A Wrinkle in Time, Madeline L'Engle
The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Douglas Adams
The Salmon of Doubt, Douglas Adams (this was a minor, posthumously-published collection of essays and unfinished fiction and yet it was one of the most influential books I've ever read for reasons I would be happy to elaborate upon)
Dune, Frank Herbert
Why I Am Not A Christian, Bertrand Russell
An Enquiry Concerning Human Understanding, David Hume
The Logic of Scientific Discovery, Karl Popper (I haven't actually read all of this one)
The Demon-Haunted World, Carl Sagan
The Selfish Gene, Richard Dawkins
Nothing To Be Afraid Of, Julian Barnes
The Twilight of American Culture, Morris Berman
The Rise of Theodore Roosevelt, Edmund Morris
The Least Dangerous Branch, Alexander Bickel

I also really like the first three books of A Song of Ice and Fire though I wouldn't call them life-changing. I've read a lot of Gaiman and think he's *slightly* overrated, except for Smoke and Mirrors which was the best short story collection I've ever read, and Good Omens which I attribute more to Terry Pratchett. Tolkien is a terrible writer, however influential he's been.

After mostly avoiding TV for about a decade, it seems we're in the midst of a TV renaissance in recent years. Some current/recent favorites:
Doctor Who (10>12>11>9)
Battlestar Galactica
Supernatural (bit of a guilty pleasure)
The Walking Dead
Game of Thrones
Futurama (but mostly the pre-cancellation stuff)
Arrested Development
American Gods
Rick & Morty

Dollhouse was better than Firefly and Buffy. There, I said it.

I grew up on MST3K, The X Files, and Brisco County, Jr. (which only lasted for a year, but what a year!) DS9 > TOS > TNG > all the rest

Movies are a broad topic, let's just say my taste largely tracks that in books and TV. I have also never seen a Woody Allen film I didn't love, even the bad ones. JJ Abrams is a deal breaker (ETA: The Force Awakens was *okay*, but Abrams gets little credit for essentially remaking A New Hope).

As far as food goes I'm pretty open. There are few things I won't try. Except mushrooms. Mushrooms are fucking gross.
Six things I could never do without
Books, especially popular science, philosophy, and sci-fi/fantasy
My passport
Video games
My bike (or at least *a* bike, since they keep getting stolen)
New York City, which still felt like home when I recently came back after 5 years in the San Francisco bay area.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Epistemic pluralism, epistemic competence, and epistemic exceptionalism. Pretty much everything I write has the word "epistemic" in it way too much.
On a typical Friday night I am
"I have no typical Friday night!" Isn't that clever? Aren't you charmed by how quirky and unpredictable I am?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was saying boo-urns.
You should message me if
I work a lot and don't have a ton of time. But I'd love to meet anyone who'd be down for:

* Weekend bike rides. Upper Manhattan to Coney Island, anyone?
* Science and cocktails events, which are refreshingly plentiful in this city
* Board game nights! I had a regular game of Battlestar Galactica going in Berkeley
* Play parties of the swinging or kink variety
* Woody Allen movies, or midnight shows at the Sunshine or IFC (Angelika intentionally excluded. Fuck the Angelika.)
* Craft beer! Even better if video games are included
The two of us