31 San Francisco, United States
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My self-summary
Charismatic introvert living in the folds between cringe and cool. Curious, open-minded, and highly empathetic. I joke around way too much, but it makes it that much more fun to hang around me. I dig good tunes, good books, DIY, terrible tv shows, RPGs, and weirdo fashion trends.
What I’m doing with my life
Classically trained painter now working as a visual development artist for video games. It's basically my dream job, but soon I would want a career that had a more positive social impact. Therapy for the mental/emotionally disabled through augmented reality? Not quite sure yet...

I like dancing like I lack a core sense of self, playing loud noisey shoegaze music at a house show somewhere in oakland, volunteering at the sf animal shelter, thrifting my secret spots, bike rides with no specific destinations, and making personalized mix tapes for friends.
I’m really good at
Being grounded enough so I have the emotional capacity to be there for the people I kinda care about.
The first things people usually notice about me
Timberlake inspired frosted tips, and my geisha-like eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Swirlies, beat happening, jesu, hollow sunshine, Henry's dress, unwound, throbbing gristle, slowdive, mac demarco, dallas cotton, pity sex, William Onyeabor, macintosh plus, cocteau twins, deerhoof, sannhet, envy, mono, ariel pink, funeral rites, weakling, not not fun etc.

Iron Giant, Royal Tenenbaums, Boyhood, Miyazaki, Mysterious skin

SOIAF, Name of the wind, Blood song, Gentleman's bastard, Speaker for the dead, rant, Broken Empire, Slaughterhouse five, a heartbreaking work of staggering genius, bossypants

Rick And Morty, broad city, Twin peaks, Sherlock, Ranma 1/2, Arrested development, Garth Marenghi's Darkplace, Xavier: Renegade Angel

Katamari Damacy, witcher 3, fallout 4, kingdom hearts, pokemon, echo the dolphin, bravely default, division, FFVIII, diablo.
The six things I could never do without
Small venue shows
Short-lived obsessions
My inhaler
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I have houseplants instead of cats instead of children instead of friends instead of a therapist.

In all seriousness - social justice, psychology, consciousness, cosmic nothingness, and why my childhood defense mechanisms are coming back to haunt me as an adult. Also, video games.
On a typical Friday night I am
shows/ house shows/ art shows
making things
binge watching netflix
or at a bar. Idea for a cool bar: A hot shower you can drink a beer in oh wait I'll just stay home.
You should message me if
You're kind, artsy, ultra nerdy, and kinda weird.

Looking for that cheesy rom-com hopeless romantic whirlwind thing, without all that gender-role bs.

If you feel like messaging me, I'll be here, testing my feelings online.