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My self-summary
I'm a very open minded person who doesn't believe in and doesn't stand for double standards(i.e., it's "less wrong" for guys to cheat than girls, because "it's just what guys do, we're more genetically programmed that way, etc..." That's bs man, people are people, it's equal). I don't care if you're black, white, pink, purple, green, where you're from, how much money you have, the kind of car you drive, etc...etc... As long as you're not a complete D-Bag, I can pretty much get along with anyone. That being said, I'm also the kind of person who can find humor in everything(i.e. South Park) and will crack on anything or anybody, including myself. Sarcasm is Golden.

Music is a huge part of my life. It's always been there, and I don't know where I'd be without it. I listen to mainly indie stuff. I could write on forever, so I'll just name a few off the top of my head - Guided by Voices, Explosions in the Sky, Rainer Maria, The Vulgar Boatmen, Jawbreaker, Jets to Brazil, Mary Lou Lord, Mates of State, Blake Babies, Big Star, Teenage Fanclub, Jeff Buckley, The Appleseed Cast, The Ponys, Wesley Willis, Tuscadero, Pedro the Lion, Julien Baker, the list is endless.

I Love discovering new bands(I mean I have a ton of shit, but there's still so much more out there I haven't heard and would enjoy, you just have to find it) and going to shows. Seeing a show every night sounds like a great way of spending the rest of my life. My favorite spots are the Beachland and the Grog Shop. I'm into seeing shows at smaller places like these and not huge venues.

I wouldn't say I like to argue, but have "spirited debates" with anyone over such things as religion, music, tv/film, etc... to such trivial or silly things as which fast food place has the best fries or which girl was the biggest dummy on "Rock of Love" for actually thinking Brett Michaels is cool & wanting to be with him.

Dress wise you'll normally find me wearing vintage shirts, jeans, and my pair of solid blue Vans, and I try to hit the thrift stores whenever I can.

Relationship wise some people say "opposites attract", that's really not my bag. Yeah, some girl with a mullet showing up for a date wearing a John Deer hat, Nickelback shirt & camo shorts, whose favorite saying is "Git Er Done" may sound extremely enticing, but I'm gonna have to pass. I'm looking for someone very much like myself. Don't get me wrong, I'm not wanting a doppelganger with just a cute little "bob cut" or something, I don't think I'd make a very attractive woman. You know, someone who has similar views, interests, thoughts, feelings and just knows how to have fun. The kind of person who you can have a kick ass time with at a show, or just have the same amount of fun going to the grocery store with, someone who connects.
What I’m doing with my life
I own my own landscaping/lawn maintenance company. I'm a really hard worker and enjoy being outside all the time. I could never be one to work in a cubicle, that would drive me insane.
I’m really good at
- Writing, telling stories, listening
- "Reading people"
- Sports(surprised?)
- Having fun
- Lower list Family Feud Answers
- And I make a mean mix tape
The first things people usually notice about me
I would have to say my boyish good looks, my ass(or lack there of), or my ability to drink the entire series cast of "Celebrity Rehab" under the table. Seriously, I don't know. This would be better answered by others' thoughts the first time meeting me, or whomever is reading this now.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I really haven't read any books for some time now. Not that I can't read or anything, I feel I can read pretty good, I just haven't. Believe me, being the only child of a former English teacher I read a lot as a child and, by no choice of my own, was ingrained with proper grammar knowledge as soon as I popped out. So much, that I used to purposely say things incorrectly just to get a rise out of my mom because my friends kept complaining to me about how she would always correct their English. Hopefully, you caught that in the second sentence.

Movies: Her, Where the Wild Things Are, Lars and the Real Girl, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Chasing Amy, High Fidelity, This is Spinal Tap, Anything John Hughes, Serenity, Waiting, The Jerk, Team America: World Police, Friday Night Lights, Moneyball and Hoosiers to name a few.

Shows: Angel, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Firefly(Hey, don't judge! You've gotta watch them all from the beginning, than you can tell me they suck. You'd be wrong, but at least you could say it.), South Park, Arrested Development, Battlestar Galactica(2004), Caprica, Freaks and Geeks, Friday Night Lights, Veronica Mars, The Adventures of Pete & Pete, The League, Warren the Ape, Starved, Cavemen, Austin Stories and a bunch of others that were cut off way too soon and never got a chance.

Music: As I said before, I listen to mainly indie stuff and named a few(of many) in my self summary because music is so important to me it deserved to be in that category. I'm sure if you're into that kind of scene we'd have a lot in common & probably a lot to introduce as well, but if I had a gun to my head I'd have to say Guided by Voices is my favorite. If you want to actually see me and know what I mean: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SX-t8_EA1_A GBV....GBV....GBV!!!

Food: I don't think I could ever get sick of Chipotle or Qdoba. One thing I'll never eat are any types of soups. No traumatic childhood soup incident, I just find them gross. Not a desert guy either, no cakes, pies, or jelly filled doughnuts for me. I do like just glazed doughnuts though and unfortunately Krispy Kreme has ruined me from wanting any other for the rest of my life, they're so damn good!!!
Six things I could never do without
- Music
- Thrift Stores
- Grass (or I'd be out of business, duh)
- Sarcasm
- A Joss Whedon series
- Possibly You

The six things I could definitely do without
- One word.....NASCAR
- Ketchup (if there's one condiment I could wipe off the face of the Earth, it's a no brainer for me)
- Liz Phair "selling out"
- Kidney Stones
- The George Foreman Grill (long story)
- Possibly You
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How Ryan Seacrest sleeps at night for giving us "Keeping up with the Kardashian's."

Also, wishing desperately that "Bad Po Fo" and "Escape From Space Prison" were actually made.


On a typical Friday night I am
Well, a typical Friday night would depend on what season it is I guess. As I said before, if there's a good show that's what I'd like to be doing. In the Fall it's always fun just sitting around a fire, listening to tunes and having a few, just staying up all night talking with cool friends. I don't know, typically I just want to be having fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You should message me if
you want to. I was also a member of another site, "Match.com." It totally sucked ass, definitely let that subscription expire, but the one good thing about it I think was my entry to their "ABOUT ME & WHO I'M LOOKING FOR" section so here it is:

I'm 5'11 3/4'' and 175 lbs of "Twisted Steel and Sex Appeal" (see photos). Now, with the obvious out of the way, I'm also open and honest and, ummm, hopefully you can tell at times very sarcastic. I dance to my own beat and I'm very passionate about the things I like and are into without worrying what others think about them. I'm very open minded and respect other people's ideas and beliefs and expect the same in return because I really don't have time for one-sided, narrow-minded people.

I do landscaping/lawn maintenance for a living. I work hard and a lot and really enjoy being outside and active. Hey, anything good enough for "Ronald Miller" is cool with me.

What am I looking for? To put it simply, a connection. You're funny, real, smart. You're an individual who isn't afraid to be themselves. You have a great mind, with something to say. You can both dish it out and take it. Someone who always wants to take care of themselves both mentally and physically. Someone passionate about the things they hold dear. Someone who doesn't settle for things. Someone who loves to laugh and realizes that there's humor in everything. Someone who respects my ideas and beliefs, but doesn't have to agree with all of them(the vast majority is good enough). Someone who can get lost and find themselves in a song. Someone fun. Someone who realizes that "So, I Married an Axe Murderer" is Mike Myers' Masterpiece. Someone who doesn't need a laugh track to life and understands and appreciates sarcasm, i.e. parts of this profile. Someone who doesn't try to impress me, but does so none the less. Someone who believes that relationships aren't something you "always" have to work at, some just work. Someone to age with, but never grow old. A best friend. Someone that everytime I see them the first thing that comes to mind is, "Man, you're the Coolest Chick in the World." Wow, that's it, I could have saved a lot of time and trouble and made it very simple: I'm looking for "The Coolest Chick in the World."
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