abey_babee
24 Brooklyn, United States
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My self-summary
everyone i know has a okc so i decided why the hell not
**just cleared most of my message box but once it fills up again, this profile goes lmao**

**BUT IM NOT HERE LOOKING FOR MY SOULMATE, IF ANYTHING POSSIBLE NEW FRIENDS OR FWB'S??? AS FOR DATING, I WONT KNOW UNTIL I SPEND ENOUGH TIME WITH YOU**

***i actually identify as a panromantic heteroflexible nonbinary (i go by he/his/him or they, preferably they)*** THEY GAVE ME THE OPTION DOE BLESS

im only into penis about 20% of the time, and even then its weird. Exploring my sexuality is something I am constantly doing when the time allows it. My inconsistent sexuality is a bane to my life. ((please dont come to me saying you can change this. like seriously there are more of you that have messaged me this than I can count on one hand, which means alot of you are not respecting the sexualities of other people.))

i am about the poly-life. i believe in communicationx3

I DONT HAVE A-LIST WHY WOULD I PAY FOR THIS NONSENSE
IF U LIKE ME, HMU. I WONT SEE YOUR FAVS/STARS UNLESS BY CHANCE I LIKED YOU TOO. DONT MISS OUT ON A POSSIBLY EXCITING/EMPTY CONVERSATION WITH A LOSER :'D (okc mobile has kinda broken this system lawl)

I used to be very PC about things. I've toned it down quite a bit since then. Nonetheless, I'm still going to respect you, especially if there is something that particularly bothers you.

I work with NYU Lutheran Hospital as a patient navigator, I escort the homeless to their doctor appointments and work with the mentally Ill and I am currently volunteering for the Auburn Family Residence, another shelter in Brooklyn. I'm stationed in Barbara S Klieman in WIlliamsburg.

I'd like to say that I am a very compassionate and caring person who will always take the time to hear you out and will be as tolerant as i can muster. My personality and energy levels are very fluid and they usually base off of eachother. Some days i bring in the energy, other days not so much, others i'd rather relax alone. I am usually pretty active in politics and social issues. I certainly don't mind being called out on things (privilege/problematic behavior), besides what is living if we are not learning and growing each and everyday. On that note, I am passionate about the world I live in and I am obsessed with the sciences, literature, history, anthropology, psychology, you name it and i'll most likely end up spending a day or what couldve been a good nights sleep reading about it.
mainly lookin for fun, friends, and to see what this website has to offer.
What I’m doing with my life
just got my B.A in psychology with a focus in neurology. As of now, just basking in the free time of the post grad life while looking for relative work to further bulk my resume and of course seeking to further my own education because goalsss
I’m really good at
I have an affinity for martial arts/kinesthetic learning(?)

I am currently taking/teaching classes for dagohir, sword and shield training as well as dual swords and spears.

i can effectively disguise my gyrations and bullshit as "dancing"

i also make my own music and im pretty good at video games >:] especially fighting games/strategy

i play league but i shouldnt say im good lel
im good at watching :'D

i will wreck ur shit at connect 4
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes. Absolutely my eyes. People usually spend a good couple minutes staring at them. It was to the point I had a real tacky pickup line if people stared too long (and itd actually work why doe?). also people tend to use me as a diary, probably because i give of very relaxing vibes idk
also depending on where you meet me, my shoes or pants are off because i give minimal fucks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Ima goddamn ninja turtle so yeah pizza. Music is everywhere, but lately classical and electronic. "A Picture Of Dorian Gray" was the book that set on the path of debauchery and really drove me to be a better writer. I know a bit whats going on in a bunch of shows because i have evil friends who give me spoilers but I dont watch tv that much sorry y'all
The six things I could never do without
friends
this laptop
my brain that does stuff
debauchery
pizza/chicken rolls
massaman curry
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the future,
family situations,
metaphysics
philosophy
apple juice
pokemon
what lies beyond death
Home stuck sometimes
fantasies about going to scotland ;u;
On a typical Friday night I am
reading articles
playing video games/watching lets plays
nature walks
exploring the ins and outs of this city, with the occasional turn-up
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I very often take responsibility for things i dont have to, and I take my anger and negative emotions and usually repress it all, in which i then deal with the turmoil of said emotions alone. I try to be my own punching bag, psychologist and life coach all at once because I hate burdening others.

I don't have a total idea of my height, I just know I'm not the tallest person in the world and that I stopped growing at 18. I'd estimate between 5'6 and 5'8 but in the end what is my height going to change if I'm lying down ;D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vBbRJoHTJAM
You should message me if
-you're interested i guess.
-looking to procrastinate
-casually shooting the shit sounds cool
-video games because theyre the best icebreaker
-exchange hawt n00dz (lel)
-you're chill enough for casual sex and are down (and are also not gonna creep on me now that i've wrote this)
-have something substantial to say
-not taking this website too seriously
- if you can smoothly alternate between being a moron and an intellectual
-you actually match decently with me like cmon y'all
-are not a problematic asshole
-wanna play league or any particular fighting games
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