28Raleigh, United States
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My self-summary
I'm an old soul reincarnated. I stand alone in a crowd of people. I don't care about the kind of car you drive or the clothes you wear. I'm a hopeless romantic. Solitude is my best friend. I'd rather be anything but ordinary, and I won't change for anyone. I come alive at night. I'm open-minded, eclectic, and introspective. I listen to songs on repeat. I flip a coin to make decisions. I am easily delighted by the little things in life. I say what I mean and I mean what I say. I've got a big heart to feed, and a stomach that's always hungry.
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently in the midst of growing into the person I want to become. I eventually want to open up my own bar/cafe but I've got a lot of traveling and learning to do first. I enjoy the freedom that comes along with having no other obligations than enjoying my own moments. I'm currently attempting to make more genuine connections. Like most people my age, I'm just trying to get my life to match my ideals.
I’m really good at
Browsing through a billion movies on Netflix yet never actually picking and sticking with one, attracting animals and small children, being awkward, real talk, over thinking everything, brutal honesty, intuition, sarcasm... and laughing at the most inappropriate moments.
The first things people usually notice about me
People like to make idiotic comments about my tattoos (is that Instagram, you're too young to know what a cassette tape is) etc.

Or... the fact that I'm small and look 18 (yeah, don't mention these things please) kthx.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Radiohead, Zero 7, Thievery Corporation, Alt-J, Florence & The Machine, Minus the Bear, Portishead, Ben Howard, Local Natives, Foals, Kendrick Lamar, Curren$y, Sohn, Polica, Washed Out, Active Child, Disclosure, Jesse Ware, Glass Animals, Rhye, Fleetwood Mac, The National, Armin Van Buuren, Above and Beyond, Nadia Ali, Jill Scott, Lauryn Hill.

Food is life and I could go on forever about it so don't tempt me. Watermelon and capers are my two single favorite foods. Indian and Thai are my favorite cuisines. Italian food when I'm craving home and Mediterranean inspired dishes when I'm feeling healthy. I like homemade ramen or anything unique or spicy. I collect vegetarian books. Isa Chandra is my favorite chef and if you know who she is you are golden. Earthy, green veggies such as escarole, broccoli rabe, kale, swiss chard, and artichokes. I appreciate a well made sandwich, and who the hell doesn't love pizza and pasta?
Six things I could never do without
human interaction and intimacy
self expression
my cats
a big bath tub
I spend a lot of time thinking about
food food food food FOOOOD.
sex, love, lust and everything in between.
The past and present and what might have been...
Or the future and what is to become.
All of the places I'd love to travel and all the things I'd like to know.
Why people do the things they do.
On a typical Friday night I am
At work making cocktails, shooing away middle aged drunk men, and watching white girls get #whitegirlwasted.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I collect my cat's whiskers and have over 200.

And I forgive too easily.
You should message me if
you know a great place to eat.
you've got adventure ideas.
you recycle!
you wanna take charge now and then.
you believe in romance and want something real
your ego is at a healthy level. (conceited = huge turn off)
you know how to communicate what you want
you're not genre specific and could have fun at a roller rink, art opening, dive bar, taco bell, my kitchen, the forest, etc.
The two of us