27 Raleigh, United States
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My self-summary
i am me(lissa).
im an old soul reincarnated. i stand alone in a crowd of people. i don't care about the kind of car you drive or the clothes you wear. im a hopeless romantic. solitude is my best friend. i come alive at night. im open-minded, eclectic, and introspective. i listen to songs on repeat. i flip a coin to make decisions. i wear my heart on my sleeve. i am easily delighted by the little things in life. i won't change for anyone. i'd rather be anything but ordinary. if you want my autobiography - just ask me.
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently in the midst of growing into the person I want to become. Right now I am working at a craft cocktail bar downtown but I eventually want to open up my own cafe. I enjoy the freedom that comes along with having no other obligations than enjoying my own moments. I'm currently attempting to make more genuine connections. Like most people my age, I'm just trying to get my life to match my ideals.
I’m really good at
browsing through a billion movies on Netflix yet never actually picking and sticking with one, attracting animals and small children, being awkward, real talk, over thinking everything, brutal honesty, intuition, sarcasm... and laughing all of the time at random things that most people don't find funny.
The first things people usually notice about me
People like to make idiotic comments about my tattoos (is that Instagram, you're too young to know what a cassette tape is) etc.

Or... the fact that I'm small and look 18 (yeah, don't mention these things please) kthx.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Trance, house, dance and electronic stuff. Radiohead, Alt-J, Zero 7, Thievery Corporation, Florence & The Machine, Minus the Bear, Portishead, Ben Howard, Local Natives, Foals, Kendrick Lamar, Curren$y, Sohn, Polica, Washed Out, Santigold, M83, Active Child, Disclosure, Jesse Ware, Glass Animals, Rhye, LCD Soundsystem, Fleetwood Mac, The National, Tiesto, Armin Van Buuren, Nadia Ali, Jill Scott, Sia, Mae, Tom Petty, Lauryn Hill, Kaskade, Joseph Arthur.

Movies: Into the Wild, Closer, Sunshine Cleaning, Chocolat, How to Deal, The Secret Life of Bees, Crazy Stupid Love, The Kids are Alright, Remember Me, Garden State, Away We Go, Elizabethtown, Eat Pray Love, You Me & Everyone We Know, Little Miss Sunshine.

TV Shows: Desperate Housewives, Queer as Folk, The Fosters, Sex & The City, The Mindy Project, Orange is the New Black, Friends, Portlandia, The L Word, Lip Service

Indian is my favorite...or anything spicy. I collect vegetarian recipe books. Earthy, green veggies that most people hate or just don't know about (escarole, broccoli rabe, kale, swiss chard, artichokes, etc.). Tofu, avocados, cucumbers, lemons, beets, salads, and fruits (especially watermelon). Italian and Mediterranean inspired dishes, I appreciate a well made sandwich, and who the hell doesn't love pizza and pasta?
The six things I could never do without
human interaction and intimacy
self expression
my cats
a big bath tub
I spend a lot of time thinking about
food food food food FOOOOD.
sex, love, lust and everything in between.
The past and present and what might have been...
Or the future and what is to become.
All of the places I'd love to travel and all the things I'd like to know.
Why people do the things they do.
On a typical Friday night I am
At work shooing away middle aged drunk men, cleaning cocktail shakers, and watching white girls get #whitegirlwasted.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I collect my cat's whiskers and have almost 200 now.

And I forgive too easily.
You should message me if
you know a great place to eat.
you've got adventure ideas.
you recycle!
you wanna take charge now and then.
you believe in romance and want something real
your ego is at a healthy level. (conceited = huge turn off)
you know how to communicate what you want
you're not genre specific and could have fun at a roller rink, art opening, dive bar, taco bell, my kitchen, the forest, etc.