acasablancafan
38 San Jose, United States
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My self-summary
If you ask my friends about me, they will probably tell you that I am a funny, thoughtful, caring and generous person whom they can always count on. They will also probably tell you that I am the one who introduce them to new things whether it is undiscovered music, tv shows, fashion, movies, books, restaurants etc.

I would also add that I am a pretty laid back person while still being ambitious. While I am very successful in my career, I do not let that define me. I consider myself a feminist and believe that most of the social ills in the world can be cured by empowering women. (A Nobel prize winner proved it out). I also follow politics and social issues very closely as well as volunteering a lot.

My life is pretty swell right now. I have a wonderful group of friends who mean the world to me. Parents who have always encouraged me and my two older sisters to be ourselves. I have three nephews whom I love to spoil. I have a wide variety of interests that keep me engaged.
What I’m doing with my life
My life is pretty swell right now. I have a wonderful group of friends who mean the world to me. Parents who have always encouraged me and my two older sisters to be ourselves. I have three nephews whom I love to spoil. I have a wide variety of interests that keep me engaged.

But somehow it feels like there is something missing. Because no matter how fulfilling our lives are, there is always a part of us that wants to love and be loved. So that is why I am here. I am hoping to meet someone which leads to a long term relationship.
I’m really good at
Helping others feel better when they are at their lowest

Finding the silver lining,

Cooking a good meal from scratch,

Volunteering for causes I care about.

Picking gifts.

Recommending books/movies/music/fashion

Personal/Career advice
The first things people usually notice about me
My Laid back confidence and sense of style.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music - Kendrick Lamar, Alabama Shakes, Marvin Gaye, Pink Floyd, Queen, Miles Davis, Sam Cooke, Nina Simone, Alicia Keys, Adele, Anouk,Billy Joel, Sarah McLachlan, Dire Straits, Frank Sinatra, Metallica, Eric Clapton, Kishore Kumar, K. J. Yesudas

Movies - Casablanca, Motorcycle Diaries, Shawshank Redemption, Pan's Labyrinth, Once, 25th Hour, In the Mood for Love, Hoop Dreams, Fight Club, My Dinner with Andre, Talk to Her, Love Actually, Before Sunset, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Like Water for Chocolate, Life is Beautiful, No Man's Land, When Harry Met Sally, Leaving Las Vegas

Books - Steppenwolf, Kitchen Confidential, Fun Home, Old Man and the Sea, Animal Farm, Bhagawad Gita, 100 Years of Solitude, The Prophet, Calvin and Hobbes, TinTin, Den of Thieves, On the Road, The Goal, The Little Prince ,Good to Great, Catcher In The Rye

TV - The Wire, Breaking Bad, Generation Kill, So You Think You Can Dance, The Office, Colbert Report, Chappelle Show, South Park, Wonder Years, The Daily Show, No Reservations

Food - if it doesn't move too quickly, I will eat it. :)
The six things I could never do without
Good sources of news

An eclectic selection of music

Movies that remind me why I love them so much

Books that take me on a journey

Simple comfort food

Camaraderie and affection of good friends and family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Food :)

Art and the artistic process.

Issues of social justice.

Does OKC work for guys like me?
On a typical Friday night I am
Salsa dancing/at a movie/watching a musical/concert/dining out with friends/cooking a good meal from scratch

But if the Joker is wreaking havoc, I don my batsuit. The cowl really brings out my eyes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I know every single line from Casablanca. Atleast all of Bogart's lines. I also have the playbill from every single show I have ever seen.
You should message me if
As to what I am looking for in a partner, I won't put a laundry list up here. No one wins with that sorta thing, But there are still some things I would like to mention.

When life throws you curveballs, it is important to have a sense of humor. Makes it much a easier to get through tough times. Kindness seems to be an underrated trait these days. I still value it very much. Someone who has most aspects of their life pulled together. I celebrate diversity. Whether it is a new cuisine or art form or destination. I hope you are similarly openminded as well.

Hopefully whatever you have read about me, has sparked your interest. So how about we find out more about each other over a cup of coffee?
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