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My self-summary
Dear Universe,
I am writing you an open letter about how I need more rad, genuine, challenging, hot, open-hearted folks in my life. Not that I am complaining. I am so grateful for all the people I know and love.
Universe, I have to be straight-up with you about how weird it feels for this half-hearted luddite to be using the magic of the internet to get dates. I trust you to make it work.
Thanks for being everything,
What I’m doing with my life
I am always always learning; hard lessons and easy ones, I hope I never stop.
I am a visual artist who is primarily interested in community-based art (read painting extremely gay paintings and doing portraits of my beautiful babe friends) and how an art practice is actually a spiritual practice dressed in a work apron and covered in clay.
For paid work I build, move, and set up fake trees/greenery in fancy-ass hotels and airports for a bizare event/production company run by weird punks. Mostly I like driving the 3 tonne truck.
One day I hope to make a living wage doing what I do best - making pretty things that hold a piece of what it means to be human in them.
In the meantime I ride bikes, make music that sounds like screaming and Beethoven together, craft, make delicious food, and occasionally put on queer-pagan public rituals involving sparkles, and a cauldron.

Oh yeah, and deep water aquafit. Like, alot of it.
I’m really good at
seeing people for what they are/seeing through bullshit
being fierce and loudmouthed
being a friend
being in green places
dreaming a different future
being alone and thinking about the universe
fucking up and learning from it
being me!
The first things people usually notice about me
That my hair is like a ferocious lion's mane, and I am femme-as-fuck!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Well, I love to read. Almost anything, mostly about queers, or POC or about magic and paganism. Actually, if there was a book about brown homo witches that saved the world with magic I'd never have to pick up a book again. Just kidding.

I've been watching a lot of startrek tng and cosmos lately, and I think I may now qualify as a brown nerd. :)

I love eating green things, "happy" meat, and fancy home-made pickles. Mostly I'll eat anything.

Music happens in phases for me. Right now I've got Princess Nokia, Braids, Glasser, Jose Gonzales and Fka Twigs on loop. Sometimes bad pop music makes me dance uncontrollably.
Six things I could never do without
serious socks - like the fancy hiking ones.
friends, community, and chosen family.
PLAY and getting into trouble
green spaces I love
also eye-liner
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the universe, how to make things better, how structural systems impact people, trauma and embodiment, magic and spirit, music and how to make more of it, getting back into right relation with land and with other people, my cat, and how to centre kindness.
On a typical Friday night I am
- sleeping like a baby
- dirty dancing
- watching a terrible netflix movie
- reading a book
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I often have an urge to roast and eat small dogs and babies. Obviously I would never do this, but I think about it....
You should message me if
you are any variation of queer, are looking to have a genuine interaction with another weirdo human, you're a fun, kind, and compassionate person, want a rad adventure-buddy, are a good kisser, and have a solid sense of yourself.
I've got a pretty soft spot for butches, sissy-bois, and tenderhearted masc-of-centre presenting folks who are kind, emotionally responsible, and grounded.
Please don't message me if you're a dude-bro of any gender.

Ps. I am a total slut for romance, but don't tell anyone.

PPS. I am a kinky perv!! Message me if you have something specific in mind ;)
The two of us