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My self-summary
I may not have a good answer... I tend to be sciencey rather than touchy-feely, but I can appreciate and have elements of both. I'm not religious, and I can only respect other people's religion when it doesn't intrude on the people around them in rude and pushy ways. I believe in art and that people who know or understand amazing things can look like they have superpowers. I like science fiction, and for some strange reason, war movies. I hate war. I'm the liberal that the conservatives generally can't win an argument with. I can be emotionally immobilized by beauty - whether it's a landscape or a woman or a sensitive act or observation or a piece of music.

I would love to find a workout partner... I'm a member a the Y. I'll spot ya :-)

I am musical, hedonistic, and addictive. Oh, and not monogamous. I don't want to surprise anyone, and I don't make any promises I can't keep. I'm in a relationship, and although we don't go into all the details with each other, we're allowed to see/hang with/date/sleep with/whatever with other people.

Once a week is definitely not enough. Just sayin.

Good for starters?
What I’m doing with my life
For a living, I am the founder and CEO of a digital development, media and marketing agency. It's about a year old (as of July 1, 2015), and grew naturally out of my previous 14 year career as a freelance consultant and web and systems designer, technical analyst and SEO/SEM/online marketing guru.

For sanity, I play drums with True Margrit, based in San Francisco, but it's been a while because I've been so busy running my company.

For fun, I like cooking, brewing beer, vinting (is that a real word?) wine, and gardening... I've got fruit trees and raised beds. In my spare time I do some community stuff and some activism, and I try to stay very well informed about current events and politics.
I’m really good at
Being there when it really counts.
The first things people usually notice about me
You'd have to ask them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Lord of the Rings, Thomas the Rhymer, David Brin's Uplift Trilogies, A People's History of the United States, Ender's Game (the rest of the series didn't ring my bell).

Movies: Galaxy Quest, Spirited Away, The Iron Giant, Lost In Translation, Little Man Tate, Rubin & Ed, Raising Arizona, Contact, Ghostbusters, A Fish Called Wanda, Bob Roberts, Lord of the Rings, Local Hero, Wall-E, How to Train Your Dragon,

TV Shows: The Daily Show, (Early!) Scrubs, Battlestar Galactica, Fawlty Towers, Northern Exposure, Coupling, Frontline, Absolutely Fabulous, Good Eats, The Colbert Report, No Reservations, ST:TOS, ST:TNG, Real Time with Bill Maher, Bill Moyers' Journal, Breaking Bad, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Stargate SG-1, Friday Night Lights, Game of Thrones, Call the Midwife (really), Vice, Silicon Valley, Veep, Better Call Saul,

Music: XTC, Jethro Tull, Bill Frisell, True Margrit, Johnny Cash, The Beatles, Trilok Gurtu, Ozomatli, Paul Simon, Peter Gabriel, Kleptones, Talking Heads, David Byrne, Dire Straits, Mark Knopfler, The Who, Bjork, David Lindley
Six things I could never do without
A really nice outdoor BBQ grill
Great sex more than once a week (this is currently a problem)

I'm sure I'll think of some others.
You should message me if
you want to! I probably want you to ;-)
The two of us