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My self-summary
OkCupid dropped the three-word-mad-lib from the profiles--those of you who are OG know what I'm talking about. I pay homage to its memory by proudly stating: I am a storyteller, a lecher, and asleep.

I'm passionate about my creativity and fit well with those who are passionate about what they do also, and who who have the same hunger for self-improvement and growth.

I tend to jump to the point, cozy up with some whiskey, and get straight to discussing personal philosophies, lessons learned from the past, human relations, and thoughts on love and sex—the psychology, lifestyles, beauty, and general mayhem of it all. I enjoy heated debate, but appreciate those who know when to back down, cool off, and possibly make out.

I look much younger than I really am. Sometimes it's cool, sometimes it's super annoying.

And I'm a deviant so it helps if you are one too.
What I’m doing with my life
Designing products at Techshop and getting the foundation set in on a startup focusing on relationships, sex, and games. And no it's not porn--if it was, the work would be easier and I'd have bank already.

Finding ways to merge my love of fashion with my love of visual narrative.

Getting back into climbing and skiing. Piss poor job of it.

Trying not to take life too seriously, tho I have a tendency to do just that.
I’m really good at
Visualization. Working with my hands. Staying up late. Fixing things. Drunken flirtation. Making out. Training dogs. Oral cherry stem tying. Solving puzzles. Playing board games. Visiting airports at 3am. Making baked desserts. Thoroughly ripping apart screenplays. Roleplay. Improving my aim. Helping people move. Picking out high heels. Tearing down and rebuilding living spaces. Personal organization (sans my room). Parallel parking a manual pickup into really small spaces on hills. Starting a fire. Trying to get really good at things I'm not really good at.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I remind them of someone else they know--friend's friend, neighbor's cousin/nephew, old classmate. It's like I have an army of doppelgangers out there crawling around the world.

If it's raining, that I'm carrying around a samurai sword.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This will most likely be outdated.

Artists: David LaChappelle, Ellen von Unwerth, Erwin Olaf, Gregory Crewdson, Marilyn Minter, Jeff Koons, Matthew Barney, Mark Rothko, Odd Nerdrum, Masamune Shirow

Books: Haruki Murakami (but who isn't), David Sedaris, Chuck Palahniuk, Christopher Moore, Neil Gaiman, Kurt Vonnegut, J G Ballard, Nicholson Baker, Roald Dahl (child and adult works). Big on good sci-fi. William Gibson. Vurt. The Unbearable Lightness of Being. Non-fic usually dealing with psychology, sociology, sexuality, game theory, and economics. I recently read The Road, and it just killed me--someone got the bleak loneliness of the apocalypse right. Enjoyable.

Movies: For a filmmaker, I don't watch a lot.

David Fincher, Terry Gilliam, Christopher Nolan, Spike Jonze, Michel Gondry, the Coens, Zach Snyder, Ang Lee, Wong Kar-wai, Akira Kurosawa, Miyazaki, Satoshi Kon. I've missed a lot.

I will watch movies purely for the explosions.

On the mini-screen: True Detective, Six Feet Under, Dexter, Battlestar, The Venture Bros. I like sci-fi alot and it's neat seeing it make a serious comeback. Quite a bit of good anime too, tho I've fallen out of touch with it. Tend to watch in binges/marathon?

Musicwise: Everlong. Female-fronted rock bands. Dance. Violins and strings. Darker stuff at the right times and spaces. Currently an obsessive amount of k-pop and j-metal.

Foods: Anything. And bacon.
Six things I could never do without
1) Stories
2) Manual transmission
3) Fountain pen ink
4) Maker's Mark
5) An amazingly intense, creative, and deviant playmate
6) Another six things
I spend a lot of time thinking about
A lot of stories and images from dreams I have. And I have some really vivid, epic, strange ones. Random ideas, thoughts, problems, solutions. People, why we are the way we are, how we relate to others, relationships, sexuality. Why SF fashion isn't more hot. Design. Economics. Science. Survival skills. My mind is always on and running.
On a typical Friday night I am
not making the best decisions.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I size up women based on their ratio of high-heels to flats. The former is more heavily weighted.

I love like San Francisco, but often wish it was more like LA.

I'm not vanilla.
You should message me if
you're a spitfire geek with a fixation for Louboutin.

you've done your work.

you're good, giving, and game.
The two of us