Books - far too many to mention.
Shows, music, movies - again very diverse across genres, cultures and languages.
sense of purpose
my sports team
mission field trips
the renaissance era (and the polymaths of those times)
my business (and new ideas)
how I should best live between 2 different cities
you are not a liar :)
you are a christian
you dont feel the need to control
you are a positive and loyal person
you dont mind travelling